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Three years of so many outgoings

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thisisasurvivor · 23/06/2023 21:57

Hello all

Money saving tips would be very much appreciated

Have got so many direct debits coming out over the next three years

Building a house
Had savings but the cost went way over

Had to take out loans (I know it's not the end of the world ) just trying to figure out how to manage these over next three years

Monthly income £3300
Loans total to £2500

I have some credit cards to use to
And pay the minimum monthly payment each month (max limit in total on them is 14k)

Crazy situation I know
Just wondering if I should stay well clear of the credit cards?
Try to get another loan?? Possibly madness I know

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thisisasurvivor · 23/06/2023 21:58

And I realise I am very fortunate to have a new house build

I have lived in a one bed apartment with two kids for long enough so I know how lucky I am before I get trolled over that

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User19844666884 · 23/06/2023 21:59

I assume you have looked into BuildStore loans?

thisisasurvivor · 23/06/2023 21:59

Thanks so much

Yes it was a no from them a long time ago

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thisisasurvivor · 23/06/2023 22:03

I was looking up some more loans online earlier and the fees are so so high 👎👎

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Whadda · 23/06/2023 22:04

Am I reading this wrong- you’re paying £2,500/month in loan payments on a monthly income of £3,300?

Does the £2.5k include your mortgage?

It sounds exceptionally tight. I can’t see how it’s doable.

Outside of loan repayments, what other outgoing do you have?

How were you able to borrow that much?

RhubarbandCustardYummyYummy · 23/06/2023 22:05

It’s often easier to earn more money than cut back. Any overpayment you can make will then reduce monthly payments and take the pressure off. Anything to sell? Any scope to up hours/bank staff/locum/freelance?

thisisasurvivor · 23/06/2023 22:06

Sorry I didn't explain well

So there is no mortgage
I had savings and to build the house
Then the costs sky rocketed

Now I had to take loans

Madness I know
Utter madness

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thisisasurvivor · 23/06/2023 22:07

RhubarbandCustardYummyYummy · 23/06/2023 22:05

It’s often easier to earn more money than cut back. Any overpayment you can make will then reduce monthly payments and take the pressure off. Anything to sell? Any scope to up hours/bank staff/locum/freelance?

Yes exactly

I have asked for more locum stork to do each weekend

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DanceMonster · 23/06/2023 22:07

Is £2.5k the amount you owe on loans, or the monthly payment?

Youknowaboutthepaint · 23/06/2023 22:08

If the house is finished now could you convert the debt to mortgage?

Not great timing but rates usually better than other debt.

User19844666884 · 23/06/2023 22:09

What stage is the house build? If you own the land and are out of the ground could you convert loans to mortgage?

I don’t see how you will get more loans with that income vs outgoings. Your best way will be to leverage your asset to restructure.

Have you seen a mortgage broker?

RhubarbandCustardYummyYummy · 23/06/2023 22:10

I’m in a similar position looking at paying 2 mortgages (dodgy cladding) and 2 sets of full time nursery on very normal wages for a couple of years and try as I might there just wasn’t enough fat to trim so earning more is far and a way the better option if you can. What is the interest on the credit cards and if it’s 0% when does that run out? (The days of just being able to move to another 0% card are over it seems).

How much can you earn with an extra shift once a fortnight or similar?

thisisasurvivor · 23/06/2023 22:12

DanceMonster · 23/06/2023 22:07

Is £2.5k the amount you owe on loans, or the monthly payment?

Monthly repayment is 2.5k a month for three years

Very good advice guys

Convert loans to mortgage
More locum work m
I own the land thankfully

Own other plots but don't want to sell them :/

May have to??

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thisisasurvivor · 23/06/2023 22:13

RhubarbandCustardYummyYummy · 23/06/2023 22:10

I’m in a similar position looking at paying 2 mortgages (dodgy cladding) and 2 sets of full time nursery on very normal wages for a couple of years and try as I might there just wasn’t enough fat to trim so earning more is far and a way the better option if you can. What is the interest on the credit cards and if it’s 0% when does that run out? (The days of just being able to move to another 0% card are over it seems).

How much can you earn with an extra shift once a fortnight or similar?

Ahh I feel your pain

Zero percent interest on c cards thankfully

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thisisasurvivor · 23/06/2023 22:14

RhubarbandCustardYummyYummy · 23/06/2023 22:10

I’m in a similar position looking at paying 2 mortgages (dodgy cladding) and 2 sets of full time nursery on very normal wages for a couple of years and try as I might there just wasn’t enough fat to trim so earning more is far and a way the better option if you can. What is the interest on the credit cards and if it’s 0% when does that run out? (The days of just being able to move to another 0% card are over it seems).

How much can you earn with an extra shift once a fortnight or similar?

The house build is now at the end

I could earn 600 a day with locum work

That would mean a year of working each weekend

And very little family time

Single parent
No support. From. Loser ex

All my fault I know just wondering how to manage it all now

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RhubarbandCustardYummyYummy · 23/06/2023 22:14

Honestly just sell a plot in that case. the stress of balancing this with rising interest rates isn’t worth the long term financial gain surely?

Hobbes8 · 23/06/2023 22:17

How old are you? 3 years seems like a very short repayment window for such a high debt. Whether it’s a mortgage or another loan, could you restructure it over a longer time? Obviously if you’re 65 that might not work.

thisisasurvivor · 23/06/2023 22:17

True!!!!!!

Not worth it

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Youknowaboutthepaint · 23/06/2023 22:18

Yes absolutely sell a plot and do it now, the market is in for a nasty shock IMO.

You might be better off financially, eventually, if you hold it long enough, but why put yourself through all this and miss family time for it if you're already in a decent financial position?

Hobbes8 · 23/06/2023 22:19

Why do you have to work every weekend with locus work…is that on top of a full time job? £600 per day 5 days per week would bring home loads more than £3300

thisisasurvivor · 23/06/2023 22:20

Hobbes8 · 23/06/2023 22:17

How old are you? 3 years seems like a very short repayment window for such a high debt. Whether it’s a mortgage or another loan, could you restructure it over a longer time? Obviously if you’re 65 that might not work.

41

Self employed

Applied for mortgage and was told no as I had just set up my business

Had savings
The. The costs got higher and higher

So in total took quite a few loans out
Paid one year of the loans
Had to take another and now I'm like craaaaap

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User19844666884 · 23/06/2023 22:20

£2.5k per month for 3 years is £70k.

if you can convert that debt to a mortgage on the house that’s nearly finished, or to a loan secured against the other plots, you could reduce your outgoings to under £800 per month if you are OK to have a 10 year mortgage term.

If it were me I would much rather that than not see my kids at the weekend.

thisisasurvivor · 23/06/2023 22:22

Ok so so helpful

Did. Not know this was an option

Good to know

I said one year of locum work to try and get rid of most loans as soon as I could

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thisisasurvivor · 23/06/2023 22:22

Youknowaboutthepaint · 23/06/2023 22:18

Yes absolutely sell a plot and do it now, the market is in for a nasty shock IMO.

You might be better off financially, eventually, if you hold it long enough, but why put yourself through all this and miss family time for it if you're already in a decent financial position?

Absolutely 🙏🙏🙏

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Hobbes8 · 23/06/2023 22:24

How long ago did you set up your business and when we’re you turned down for a mortgage? Also, was the mortgage on a partially built house? That would be much riskier than a finished house, plus you’ll have been self employed for longer.

I was self employed when I bought my current house (plus I was pregnant and had an unfunded maternity leave coming up!). At 41 you could take out a 20-25 year mortgage for a few hundred quid a month and take the pressure off - you can always overpay, or a 10 year mortgage and get it paid off quicker.

Id speak to a decent broker - happy to PM you mine. She’s super nice.

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