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Changing rooms at secondary school

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Timefliessofast · 23/06/2023 13:28

Our kids wear their PE kit all day on PE days so getting changed for PE isn't a thing for them. When they started school swimming lessons they were horrified by the communal changing room (I can't swim so never took them swimming).
I've tried to reassure them that's what we had at school and it's quite normal. The problem is I went to school "in the olden days". Can anyone tell me what they can expect regards getting changed for PE once they start secondary school?

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Marblessolveeverything · 23/06/2023 14:01

My child refused and the school and I supported them. They used the toilet cubicle.

I find the contradictory challenges of child protection and body privacy against open communal changing rooms crazy.

We tell them they have a right to privacy and then tell them to get changed on an area with others

Maddy70 · 23/06/2023 14:18

Pretty standard but there is usually a space with a couple of cubicles too

Badbudgeter · 23/06/2023 14:21

School pool is available to the public at certain times and is all cubicles. Pe changing room I’d completely communal. DS wears a t shirt under his shirt on pe days so just has to take off shirt and tie and swap trousers for shorts.

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FlickyCrumble · 23/06/2023 14:23

Long overhead towels that you might use at the beach. Keep everything hidden.

museumum · 23/06/2023 14:26

It’s unpredictable. Personally I will send my dc with a towel changing robe just for privacy. I don’t mind communal changing myself but I know it can be excruciating during puberty, I wasn’t comfortable in my skin until into my 20s.

Monkeytapper · 23/06/2023 14:28

They wont need to get fully naked to get changed for PE in secondary, I think pp are thinking you are asking about swimming

LadyDanburysHat · 23/06/2023 14:29

I don't know of any changing rooms in secondary schools that are communal. Also in my DCs primary school they have changing rooms for both sexes.

Badbudgeter · 23/06/2023 15:20

Monkeytapper · 23/06/2023 14:28

They wont need to get fully naked to get changed for PE in secondary, I think pp are thinking you are asking about swimming

Kids do swimming for P.E. one term a year where we are. I thought it was on the curriculum?

titchy · 23/06/2023 15:50

LadyDanburysHat · 23/06/2023 14:29

I don't know of any changing rooms in secondary schools that are communal. Also in my DCs primary school they have changing rooms for both sexes.

Wow! The schools you know must have so much space! The majority of changing rooms in secondary are communal - obvs split boys and girls.

What's the concern though - they're never naked. Just in underwear.

LadyDanburysHat · 23/06/2023 15:53

titchy · 23/06/2023 15:50

Wow! The schools you know must have so much space! The majority of changing rooms in secondary are communal - obvs split boys and girls.

What's the concern though - they're never naked. Just in underwear.

I don't really understand how they are communal and split boys and girls. Surely those things are completely different.

LBOCS2 · 23/06/2023 15:58

Split into girls and boys and that space is communal - so all the girls get changed together and all the boys get changed together, surely?

That's how it was in my school as a teenager and more recently in DSS' secondary school.

Babdoc · 23/06/2023 16:16

My school not only had communal changing rooms but communal showers. Thankfully single sex, but I wonder how they would have dealt with the modern transgender nonsense, if a teenage boy insisted he identified as a girl.

MillicentTrilbyHiggins · 23/06/2023 16:19

LadyDanburysHat · 23/06/2023 15:53

I don't really understand how they are communal and split boys and girls. Surely those things are completely different.

Communal doesn't mean mixed sex.

titchy · 23/06/2023 16:23

I don't really understand how they are communal and split boys and girls. Surely those things are completely different

Communal means a group of girls or a group of boys all changing together rather than in individual cubicles. Obviously it doesn't mean boys and girls together Confused

Monkeytapper · 23/06/2023 20:55

@Badbudgeter where we are (Leeds) we only get one term in primary , no swimming at all in secondary

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