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Imposter syndrome holding me back

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Sendingmetosleep · 21/06/2023 13:57

Anyone else suffer with this? I know deep down I am capable of certain things...more than capable of these things, but there's this voice in my head that's saying you'll fail/can't do it which seems louder than the rest.

I have had a call from a recruiter for a role about 2.5k higher than what I'm on (not groundbreaking I know) read the JD and started picking myself apart i.e ohh I'd fail at this bit or that bit maybe I shouldn't go for it. Partner said you could do it easily.... Just go for it. So I have, CV being sent today. Feedback from previous employers and current is excellent and I am capable of more, I just don't think I am!

Anyone any tips / books / websites / cures that can help me feel the same way about myself that others seem to think about me?

Thanks for reading if you got this far!

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24Dogcuddler · 21/06/2023 16:12

Try this book if you haven’t already.
Good luck with the job application.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Imposter-Cure-mind-trap-imposter-syndrome/dp/1783253061

Work2live · 21/06/2023 16:16

Agree about the book above, it changed my life. I found the exercises in it really useful. Another book called ‘How Women Rise’ helped me a lot too.

What I’ve found with imposter syndrome (for me anyway!) is that it never 100% goes away, and a small amount of imposter syndrome can be a good thing. But the trick is to try not to let it take over your life. You know you’re good at what you do, it’s ok to believe in yourself 😊

Sendingmetosleep · 22/06/2023 13:09

Thank you both, will check out that book!!

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