Feel like an idiot

[Schlongtimecoming]

I have just driven around for an hour like a crazy woman looking to see if I can catch out my dp, who has been acting very strange the last couple of weeks.
Ive only seen him once in 3 weeks, his phone is on do not disturb at very random times an he is ignoring me, then texting back the next day.

We used to spend at least 4-5pw together, but I know he’s sleeping with someone else and I know who it is, I can literally feel it in my bones. I’m definitely done with the relationship, but part of me needs to know and see it with my own eyes.

But as it stands I feel like the biggest idiot going, I’m checking my phone every minute waiting for a call or text that I know isn’t coming.

Just dump his sorry arse and move on.

Go home, glass of wine and bed. Don’t let him in if he calls. Tell him you’re done. He really isn’t worth your time or petrol.
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Why bother yourself. Dump him. Move on. He's a loser

He isn’t worth it, have known it for a long time.

Just dump him! Do it now and wake up to a fresh start tomorrow. What’s stopping you?

Basically what he's done is dump you without telling you. He's done that so that he can creep back when it all goes belly up.

If he's got a key to your place, change the lock. I would delete and block on my phone and social media. You don't have a relationship with him now. I'm really sorry he's been such a complete and utter twat.

It doesn't matter whether he is cheating or not at this point - You don't trust him. End it anyway, you already know he isn't worth it.

This.

He doesn’t have a key and as far as I’m concerned the relationship is well and truly over.

I have never in my life done what I have just done, my belly was doing flips the whole time. Even now I feel sick, it’s hard because even though he wasn’t the greatest person I miss him.

Love, go home, have a glass of wine or whatever and go to sleep. Do not waste one more second of your time on him. You are so so so much better than this.

I’m back now have been for about an hour.

It’s so frustrating, I want to give him a mouthful of abuse but it’s pointless he won’t acknowledge it and I will just make myself look as if I’m desperate for his attention.