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It's all about him

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cookingmama02 · 14/06/2023 23:44

Having a heated argument with my partner, I have just found out I'm pregnant recently and I'm telling him it's hard for me and my body, he says " your only six weeks you've done it before " and when I was saying things such as your never there for me he does the typical " no your never there for me " he's not pregnant, suffering severe morning sickness, on going chronic pain, migraines etc on a daily basis but in every argument he makes anything I say about him, he also deepens his voice and tries to act like he his being the more mature person but he says things that anger me even more and when you are begging someone to leave you alone and they just keep saying something back it's infuriating, all this started because I asked him to stop turning the light on and off because I have a migraine he's so nasty but puts it on in a way to make himself feel like the bigger person I hate him.

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Quitelikeit · 14/06/2023 23:46

How long have you known this man?

personally he sounds like my idea of hell. I certainly wouldn’t have a child with him

Do you really want your child to grow up to be like this man?

PaigeMatthews · 14/06/2023 23:49

was the pregnancy intentional? Is it what you want? Is he what you want for a father?

TomatoSandwiches · 14/06/2023 23:50

Do you really want to be linked to this arse of a man for your whole life?
He doesn't care about you even when you are pregnant with his potential child, imagine this behaviour when you're recovering from birth, sounds horrific.

If it were me, if be organising a termination and leaving the twat.

mrsfollowill · 14/06/2023 23:55

He sounds like an utter twat- he should be taking care of you at this stage not arguing! Do you want to be with him? I sure as hell would not.

PaigeMatthews · 15/06/2023 00:44

Op, I’ve just read you other post and Im so sad for you. This is the third pregnancy with him and you're only 19. You've been abused all your life. You need to go and speak to your GP about it all immediately and ask for help.

Northernsouloldies · 15/06/2023 00:52

Oh op I've no advice to give other than my heart goes out to you and your situation. That is so much for someone of 19 to contend with. I really hope you can get the help you need from a Gp and any other agencies that can support you.

LuckyPeonies · 15/06/2023 01:06

cookingmama02 · 14/06/2023 23:44

Having a heated argument with my partner, I have just found out I'm pregnant recently and I'm telling him it's hard for me and my body, he says " your only six weeks you've done it before " and when I was saying things such as your never there for me he does the typical " no your never there for me " he's not pregnant, suffering severe morning sickness, on going chronic pain, migraines etc on a daily basis but in every argument he makes anything I say about him, he also deepens his voice and tries to act like he his being the more mature person but he says things that anger me even more and when you are begging someone to leave you alone and they just keep saying something back it's infuriating, all this started because I asked him to stop turning the light on and off because I have a migraine he's so nasty but puts it on in a way to make himself feel like the bigger person I hate him.

And you are actually going to have a child with him ? Why ?

Hawkins0001 · 15/06/2023 01:10

All the best op, and ltb

WhereYouLeftIt · 15/06/2023 02:05

It is not unknown for abusive men to wait until they have the woman 'trapped', by either marriage or pregnancy, until they begin the abuse cycle. This could be what is happening here.

Are you sure you want to tie yourself to this man for the rest of your life (or at least the next 18 years) through a shared child? Personally, I would leave him, and arrange an abortion for myself. I definitely think you should leave him.

Groutyonehereagain · 15/06/2023 02:11

TomatoSandwiches · 14/06/2023 23:50

Do you really want to be linked to this arse of a man for your whole life?
He doesn't care about you even when you are pregnant with his potential child, imagine this behaviour when you're recovering from birth, sounds horrific.

If it were me, if be organising a termination and leaving the twat.

This ^ 💐

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