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TrixyTed · 10/06/2023 20:22

There's a homeless man who is always sitting outside the supermarket when I go on a Saturday. He has a cup for people to drop coins in but never asks for money. I never have any change so always ask him what he wants and buy a few bits for him. We often have a quick chat about how he is etc.

When I got there today he had only just arrived and was getting out his blanket to sit down. I stopped behind him to ask what I could get him and when he turned around he started crying and told me his girlfriend had died two days ago. They sleep in a tent on the outskirts of the city and when he woke up she was lying next to him having passed away. He was in absolute bits and said they kept themselves to themselves so he doesn't really have any friends. I sat with him for a while and we talked about her.

The police are aware of what's happened (they took her possessions) but I'm really worried about how vulnerable he is. He's now on his own and in a state of grief and shock. I don't know where he actually sleeps so can't refer through Street Link but was hoping someone on here might know of an organisation who could help him?

I know it's none of my business but he has nobody looking out for him. Losing a partner is difficult but having no accommodation, money or support network must make the practical side of things even harder.

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junebirthdaygirl · 10/06/2023 20:28

Has he help with managing a funeral? Poor man even doing that must be such an ordeal. I'm sure an undertaker would know who helps in those circumstances. Is there any groups helping the homeless in your town? I am in lreland so groups are different. Is there any government money he is entitled to ..must be? Any local church who might give advice or support. It's very sad and it's good you have that connection with him.

Bluebellbike · 10/06/2023 20:30

Hi @TrixyTed

Sorry you aren't getting replies. Probably due to the football final.

It may be helpful to say where you are as help for homeless will vary by location.

TrixyTed · 10/06/2023 20:33

Thank you both for replying. I'm in West Yorkshire. There are a few charities I tried calling but there's no answer because it's the weekend. I'll try them again Monday and see if anyone can offer him any support.

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