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What’s a fair way of sharing the cost of this holiday cottage?

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meaniemaybe · 09/06/2023 23:05

Group A have booked a holiday cottage for £2000 for 10 nights. 2 adults.

Group B are staying for 3 nights 2 adults and 1 child.

Group C are staying for 4 nights 2 adults and 3 children.

One way to split cost would be per person per night so overall there are 49 ‘person nights’ which you could price at £40.82 each so A would pay £816.40, B £367.38 and C £816.40 as well as there are 5 people in group C but for fewer nights?

Or could split by rooms - A will use 1 room, B 2 rooms, C 2 rooms plus sofa bed in communal area?

Or is there a simpler way we’re not thinking of?

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LorraineInSpain · 09/06/2023 23:08

This isn’t exactly equal, but I’d probably get Group A to pay £1000 (and they get the nicest room) and the other groups £500 each.

I don’t think it works splitting it by “person nights” as group A have the benefit of the cottage t9 themselves some of the time.

burnoutbabe · 09/06/2023 23:09

Are group b and c overlapping do they need more extra rooms than if they went separate times?

And id group a are the parents /grandparents of b and c then it's different again. Then I'd do a half and b/c half each.

meaniemaybe · 09/06/2023 23:11

We’re siblings. So one adult in each group is sibling of the others. Oh and group B and C won’t overlap

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Desmondo2021 · 09/06/2023 23:11

Could you work out what booking it for the 3 nights and the 4 nights would cost for the respective family groups and see what figure that leaves for the couple?

AnotherDayAnotherUsernameForMe · 09/06/2023 23:11

I would go
A £1000 nicest room
B £430
C £570

GoalShooter · 09/06/2023 23:13

'Person nights' seems the fairest approach here, but maybe with the children counting as half a person?

arethereanyleftatall · 09/06/2023 23:14

Your first way is bonkers because the family staying for 4 nights are paying the same as family staying for 10!

It sounds like it's As 'idea' for want of a better word, as in it's the holiday they want to go on, and the others are just kind of guests.

Greenfree · 09/06/2023 23:14

So the cottage is £200 per night, on the nights there are 3 groups there I would divide the 200 by 3, so it would be about £67 per night for each group, on the nights there are 2 groups I would do £100 per night for each group. Agree with PP that the group staying 10 nights should get the best room

Grumpigal · 09/06/2023 23:16

agree I would see group A take the bulk of the cost as they are staying there for 10 nights.

It wouldn’t be right to charge group C the same as group A considering they are staying less than half the time of group A!

group B & C are staying less than half the time and children don’t realistically get charged the same as an adult so the PPPN seems a bit off! Especially expecting them to pay the same as group C

I would suggest the easiest way is - the cottage costs 200 a night - for the nights it is shared then the 200 is divided by the groups so if 2 groups it’s 100 each, if 3 then 67 each and if only group A then they cover the full 200 surely? It is a simple cost per night divided by the number of groups for that night.

you haven’t said if the nights overlap but this works either way

WhyDoesItAlways · 09/06/2023 23:16

GoalShooter · 09/06/2023 23:13

'Person nights' seems the fairest approach here, but maybe with the children counting as half a person?

This. Or per room per night meaning 3rd child effectively goes free but I wouldn't mind that for a neice/nephew.

LorraineInSpain · 09/06/2023 23:17

I would suggest the easiest way is - the cottage costs 200 a night - for the nights it is shared then the 200 is divided by the groups so if 2 groups it’s 100 each, if 3 then 67 each and if only group A then they cover the full 200 surely? It is a simple cost per night divided by the number of groups for that night.

I think this is the best idea so far

Dutchesss · 09/06/2023 23:19

A -£1200
B -£350
C -£450

Silkierabbit · 09/06/2023 23:20

I would do person nights but not charge for the child on the sofa.

shiningstar2 · 09/06/2023 23:23

If I was group C I wouldn't feel great about paying for four nights the same amount as group A who are staying for 4 nights. Also group C is only staying one extra night to group B and are paying more than double what group B are paying. The difference of one night between group B and group C costs more than £400 more even though they are only using 2 bedrooms like group B. It isn't much fun having to use the communal living area as a bedroom so I wouldn't charge all that extra for that. Kids usually cost less than adults in a rental so I wouldn't go with per person, especially as there isn't enough bedrooms for group C. Maybe £1000 for group A, £450 for group B and £550 for group C. If there is a particularly nice room with ensuite group A gets that. Think that's the best you can do. Or divide by adults and days which would bring group A s contribution down a bit

shiningstar2 · 09/06/2023 23:24

I mean wouldn't feel great if I was group C paying more than double to group B. 🤔

arethereanyleftatall · 09/06/2023 23:24

I like the £200 per night idea but A comes out a bit of a loser there.....

A - £1300
B - £300
C - £400

But per person per night A are the absolute winners.

So...fuck it, no one fair way...so go averages..

A - £1000
B - £400
C - £600

VapeHelp · 09/06/2023 23:32

I’d say A pays £1000 and tells the siblings to sort out the other grand between them. Job done.

W1h · 09/06/2023 23:37

Starting point would be to split per room per night stayed.

So A: exclusive use for 3 nights: 3 x 200 +
1 of 3 rooms for the rest of the time: 1/3 x 7 x200
Total = 1067
B: 2/3 x 200 x 3 = 400
C: 2/3 x 200 x 4 = 533

That being said it would depend slightly on how it was arranged - e.g. was A planning on going away and had to book a more expensive cottage than they would otherwise have gone for to accommodate the others for their short stays - in which case B and C should pay a bit more than their 'fair share', or did you all discuss a shorter booking together and A said they wanted to extend it so they could stay longer - so accepting full responsibility for the cost for the extra days etc.

Stickmansmum · 09/06/2023 23:38

I would do £200/night divided by the number of rooms used (with sofa bed not counted).

Couple A pay £200 x 3 nights + £67 x 7 nights

Couple B pay £134 x 3

Couple C pay £134 x 4

Shoemadlady · 09/06/2023 23:46

Easiest way is to split the cottage down by night so 2000/10 = 200 and then split that depending on capacity on certain nights.

SSCCLL · 09/06/2023 23:50

We've always done person nights so you can imagine my horror when I was charged just by person even though I was staying less time with a different group.
Person nights is the way to go although I wouldn't include the child because that seems petty

Whataretheodds · 09/06/2023 23:54

Are the 2 rooms B use the same as the 2 rooms that C will use?

If so who is changing the linens?

wildfirewonder · 09/06/2023 23:57

Group A have booked a holiday cottage for £2000 for 10 nights. 2 adults.
Group B are staying for 3 nights 2 adults and 1 child.
Group C are staying for 4 nights 2 adults and 3 children.

£2000/10 nights = £200/night.
Divide each night by the number of groups staying on that particular night.

Applecoresweet · 10/06/2023 00:02

Group A have booked themselves a holiday and group b and c are coming to see them basically. So group A should pay for the vast majority of the accommodation and get the best room. In my family group B and C would not be charged anything but would probably offer £200/£300 each to group A. I think charging group b or c anywhere near £500 would be a nonsense.

W1h · 10/06/2023 00:21

You could also do room- night's (I wouldn't count the sofa-bed). So
A - 10 room-nights
B - 6 room-nights
C - 8 room-nights

Total = 24 room-nights
2000/24 = 83.33 /room-night

A = £833
B = £500
C = £667