Venting

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Just need to vent, my life is completely shit, my husband repulses me and I don't have a job or way out of this. I'm looking at him now and honestly I want to throw up, just that really.

😂😂😂😂 sorry I laughed so hard at this because same

Ahhh.. that was me in 2002

I know right bastard men ,😂 not even kidding

You married him for a reason 🤔 what was it? Why does he repulse you so much? Can't you talk to him and rekindle your love or is it already over in your head? Is he really that bad? Or you going through some problems that is impacting your relationship?

So why did you marry him? There must've been some love there.
Imagine this post were a husband saying the same about his wife, and then other guys joining in with "same!"
If you're unhappy then do something about it. But don't sit around speaking so cruelly about someone you loved enough to take vows for.

Not suggesting this is the case at all for the OP but a lot of people get married for other reasons than being madly in love. Like feeling obliged, like wanting to fit in in society, like really wanting the wedding rather than marriage as such... how many people if they could look into the future before marriage would actually still marry their spouse? A lot wouldn't. Things change. Feelings change...

Could you try couples counselling or you each chose something to do ( say once a fortnight) together eg have a meal at a country pub, go to the cinema
Hope it all works out

It’s very normal to want to vent about your other half and also so many people go through this stage in a relationship