My DH has always been really moody since I have known him but the "good" times so to speak were more so it wasn't as much of a problem..
Now 15 years and 3dc later, he's become even more withdrawn and moody. He hardly has a conversation with me. Sometimes he does and it's so noticeable and really nice when he does. I try to talk about work, weather, kids, plans for the weekend, bloody anything and most responses are one word answers or just completely ignores me. I sometimes feel I'm just doing the Spanish inquisition and not having a conversation.
He never socialises with anyone. No friends, family. He just about goes to his family events if they are close like a wedding but doesn't go to any on my side.
It's now getting to a point where Im feeling really fed up and so lonely. If I didn't have my kids, I'd literally have noone to speak to. I notice other people's partners and how they chat, have a laugh with them and it makes me so sad.
If I ask him, is anything the matter. The answer is always no. If I ask him why he's withdrawing or not talking he says I'm not, leave me alone. He has never once said yeah sorry just not feeling great or I just want to be left alone for a bit. If he just acknowledged it, I would be able to deal with it much better. At the moment I just feel like I'm being paranoid and this isn't right but he insists it's me with a problem with him.