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Should I feel bad that I'm enjoying this?

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CatastrophicCat · 26/05/2023 12:31

NDN's dog has been problematic for years, she accepts the dog is mental but has done nothing to improve the situation, or the impact on us. It attacks the fence everytime our dogs set foot in our garden and makes it impossible for us to spend any time out there, our dogs obviously feel threatened and can't relax so we've spent the last few summers stuck in our (boiling hot) house, unable to use our garden.

Some things have changed for us recently, Ddog1 sadly died and Ddog2 has struggled so we've been trying new things with him to cheer him up, new toys and training techniques to stop him getting bored and pining now he's an only dog. We've been playing a particular game with him in the garden lately and found he loves it so much he completely ignores the dog next door, even when it's going absolutely wild at the fence.

And the (unintended, honest!) result of that is that her dog is now causing absolute havoc in her garden and means NDN is forced to make it go inside where she usually just turfs it out into the garden and leaves it to make other people's lives a misery. It's obviously really pissing NDN off that her own dog is now inconveniencing her rather than us and I'm struggling not to laugh everytime she has to come out and sort her dog (and the mess it's made of her garden) out.

I should add that NDN is in general a nightmare neighbour who causes us and the other neighbours a lot of problems so I guess I'm taking pleasure in just a tiny bit of that backfiring on her. It's not in my nature to laugh at others misfortune but I can't seem to help it in this case, is that really bad?

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FourFoxSake · 26/05/2023 12:35

I'm not sure I'd give two hoots about the neighbour now being upset so YANBU for that.

However, a dog going nuts at the turf etc is a deeply stressed and uphappy dog. For that reason, I'd find it hard to enjoy this chance at a bit of 'justice'.

CatastrophicCat · 26/05/2023 12:48

I love dogs, have reported NDN to RSPCA numerous times because her animals are neglected/mistreated and they wouldn't even come out. I would never normally take pleasure in an animal's distress but in this case have been pushed to my absolute limit.

The dog is really aggressive, has bitten two neighbours and NDN's baby in the last couple of months alone, SS are involved (have been for years) but nothing ever changes. She's apparently trying to rehome the dog now it's bitten the baby but even that is irresponsible with this particular dog, I pity whoever takes it on.

So my sympathy has run out I'm afraid, she has 3 large breeds in that tiny house (plus numerous cats she doesn't neuter and leaves to fend for themselves) with a young baby and an 8yo, it's been a recipe for disaster for a long time. Maybe now she's having to deal with it herself she'll acknowledge that she can't care for any of her pets, that would be best for all the animals involved tbh.

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StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 26/05/2023 12:56

Yanbu but wow I feel sorry for that household.

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CatastrophicCat · 26/05/2023 13:07

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 26/05/2023 12:56

Yanbu but wow I feel sorry for that household.

Me too, I was horrified when she got pregnant again, those kids don't stand a chance. She has alcohol issues too, it's shocking that SS haven't taken the kids by now.

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mycatsanutter · 26/05/2023 13:13

Pisses me off when people have kids and dogs and don't look after them 😡

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