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Partner with depression pulling me down

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ColourMeBlue · 20/05/2023 13:43

Title says it all really-partner has depression,recently be diagnosed with PTSD.trying to be supportive,leave him alone completely,don't nag at him to clean,cook,do anything really-he works full time and I literally LEAVE HIM ALONE.However he says things like stop moaning when I've said something ONCE,or in conversation.so I then tend to not talk to him unless he talks to me.he says things like "it's your fault I'm in a mood.im trying to keep my head together and you are pulling me down.you are making me feel inferior to you".when I say I don't mean too,he replies I know that,but I still feel it.i feel it's so unfair for me to be the cause/blame/reason for his happiness.i saw a quote that says"if they keep hurting you,love them and stay or love yourself and leave".anyone else in a similar position?and advice?I really think at this point we would be better off living apart.sorry the post is so long and thanks for reading 🙂

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