Just that really…
He is utterly obsessed with daddy (I can understand why because i’m always seen as the bad cop by saying no to treats etc and disciplining), whereas daddy gives in and would quite literally give him about 20 chocolate bars in a row if I left him on his own with ds!!
He also absolutely LOVES my mum and dad. Don’t get me wrong, I love his relationship with my parents and wouldn’t change it for the world… but…
Since ds2 has come along, I feel so much closer to him and so much more distant to ds1 which is really upsetting me. He is forever asking for everyone other than me and it’s getting to me! I love him so bloody much but feel really disconnected to him. I hate myself for even saying that.. but he just seems genuinely so much more content with my parents and his dad.
I just want to feel like his mum again.. I don’t feel in charge either, but then again I suppose who ever feels in charge over a 2 year old (his way or no way!)
Any good tips or book recommendations?