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Where to start planning wedding abroad

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anon2022anon · 13/05/2023 09:18

Any tips? Any place recommendations to start searching?

We would like a budget wedding, prefer a city hall/ meal in a nice restaurant, rather than a hotel wedding during an all inclusive week type. I reckon there would be up to 30 guests. If we could get it for 5k for the actual wedding, I'd be happy (service, meal, photographer, transport between venues for guests seem like the main costs).

Open to place, but would like it to be fairly close to an airport with regular flights, so that if any family wants to come, they can easily have a 2-3 day trip rather than a week.

Would like to physically get married there, not have a registry office wedding here then something else there

At the minute, Italy seems to be the easiest set up for that- I keep coming back to Venice as plenty of flights, staying on the mainland is reasonable cost wise, scenic for photographs, centrally placed city hall, plenty of good food to eat. But I would like other ideas and to figure out where to start!

Not really feeling the idea of getting married here, we both have large families so even inviting just parents/siblings & partners/nieces and nephews here would be around 50 guests, before you get to any friends whatsoever or extended family, so to have a nice event here would cost a fortune and automatically be a 'big wedding'. It would cause riots to invite siblings without families, so not really an option to make it smaller. Happy for any family that wants to to come abroad, or for anyone to say no, we won't be offended, it's an invite not a summons, before there's a raft of posts telling me it's selfish to have a wedding abroad!

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Isitoknow · 15/05/2023 21:17

It was cheaper than getting married here. Much cheaper. I’m quite organised and with a bit of research it wasn’t too bad.
We had a simple ceremony and then drinks and dinner at a hotel.
the best bit was that all the people who came really wanted to be there for us. PM me if you’d like more info.

RageAgainsttheBanks · 15/05/2023 21:58

We were married in the town hall in castellina in chianti, Tuscany. The town hall is actually an old castle and very beautiful. We only invited immediate family (16 ppl in total) and hired a villa big enough for everyone to stay as long as they wanted the week we were there. We hired caterers to come to the villa and do 4 course dinner which worked out about35 euro per head. The food was amazing and they served and cleaned up after. All in was about £5k 9 years ago.we had a local wedding planner that helped with legalities, florist, hairdresser, photographer etc. we asked those invited to cover their flights (most flew to Pisa) and hire car cost(a car was needed as the villa was remote). As we covered accommodation cost came up quite cheap for guests.

Swishhh · 15/05/2023 22:19

My relative got married in Sienna town hall, it was lovely.

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MariaJolly · 26/10/2023 12:26

Could not agree more, I vouch for them as well. It was very easy for us to get married in Copenhagen as well. The whole ceremony is just so quick and smooth.
And in case you might need a wedding photographer for your elopement in City Hall, I would definitely recommend Aleks https://www.aleksjakobsons.com/ who has captured our ceremony as well. Good luck

vernatheraven · 26/10/2023 12:28

Changingplace · 13/05/2023 09:39

Cyprus is easy- you don’t need to be in the country for a set amount of time before the wedding and the ceremony is legal, nothing to do here whatsoever.

I got married in Cyprus via tui and it was stress and hassle free

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