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What job can I do instead? Devastated

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treetea · 12/05/2023 13:10

I have been working towards a midwifery degree since 2019 and I now cannot continue due to a health issue that doesn't affect me day-to-day, but that they feel makes me unsafe to practice.

It is my dream, I have never wanted to do anything else. I was going to use the degree to set up my own business.

I am now at a loss? I have a 4 year old DS and live alone with him.

I am generally quite intelligent, but not a fan of mathematics.

I'd ideally like something with high (ish) earning potential, but I'd settle for less if I loved it.

I don't want to be in healthcare anymore.

I just can't see myself starting from scratch, I'm absolutely gutted.

OP posts:
dancingdiva12 · 13/05/2023 17:30

Have a look at clinical coding. The wages aren’t great to start with but not bad once qualified. There’s lots of opportunity to contract as well. The hours would also be better to fit in with childcare. Your knowledge in midwifery would transfer

JennieTheZebra · 13/05/2023 17:41

@treetea
You really really need advice from your student union. DON’T DROP OUT YET! Sorry for shouting but this is really important. For health reasons, student finance will fund as many years as you need. You can get this last year “written off” for the purposes of student finance and return when you’re well enough. This is called “Compelling Personal Reasons”. You’ll need evidence of your illness and should get some support from your SU to write the letter. All is not lost! https://www.gov.uk/guidance/going-back-to-uni-or-repeating-a-year

Going back to uni or repeating a year

If you're going back to university after studying previously or you're repeating a year, this can affect your student finance.

https://www.gov.uk/guidance/going-back-to-uni-or-repeating-a-year

Antisocialfluffmonster · 13/05/2023 17:44

MrsMorrisey · 13/05/2023 12:56

Agree.
In my experience university gives you many opportunities to complete and succeed as it is in their best interests
What the health condition?
Loads of people work with health issues.

@MrsMorrisey @Dustyourselfoff ok Miss Marples!!!!!

it’s Mumsnet, there’s no need to go all super sleuth on people.

OP said repeatedly it’s a health issue, if this isn’t good enough maybe take a chill pill

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Fedupwitheveryone · 13/05/2023 18:11

as PP said this is a great option -

Clinical Trials for pharmaceutical company or University? Registered nurses/midwives have a lot of transferable skills and knowledge that are valuable in clinical research.

This is very well paid, definitely look into it if it appeals. I know an ex- RN who earns buckets doing this

Wally1983 · 13/05/2023 18:32

Absolutely ask if there is anything they can do to pause your course. Being a victim of crime and having an illness as serious reasons for this to be allowed. I can’t say too much as would be outing but daughter on same course and has paused twice…!! One being a victim of crime, the other being ill health. Please please ask again!!! Good luck!

Jellyx · 13/05/2023 18:32

Could you be a health visitor?

anon666 · 13/05/2023 18:39

treetea · 12/05/2023 13:10

I have been working towards a midwifery degree since 2019 and I now cannot continue due to a health issue that doesn't affect me day-to-day, but that they feel makes me unsafe to practice.

It is my dream, I have never wanted to do anything else. I was going to use the degree to set up my own business.

I am now at a loss? I have a 4 year old DS and live alone with him.

I am generally quite intelligent, but not a fan of mathematics.

I'd ideally like something with high (ish) earning potential, but I'd settle for less if I loved it.

I don't want to be in healthcare anymore.

I just can't see myself starting from scratch, I'm absolutely gutted.

You could try NHS management. It's surprisingly well paid after a few years, and your clinical training will be an incredible bonus.

MachinesOfGod · 13/05/2023 18:40

Fedupwitheveryone · 13/05/2023 18:11

as PP said this is a great option -

Clinical Trials for pharmaceutical company or University? Registered nurses/midwives have a lot of transferable skills and knowledge that are valuable in clinical research.

This is very well paid, definitely look into it if it appeals. I know an ex- RN who earns buckets doing this

Like you’ve said in your posts “it’s a great option for registered nurse/midwives”* *- OP has told us that she isn’t going to make it as far as registration as a midwife so it won’t be a great option for her.

MachinesOfGod · 13/05/2023 18:42

Jellyx · 13/05/2023 18:32

Could you be a health visitor?

This has been answered multiple times on the thread already. Health visitors need to have active registration on the NMC register as a Nurse or Midwife - the health visiting qualification doesn’t standalone, it’s an add on to Nursing or Midwifery.

Dinosaurhearmeroar · 13/05/2023 19:00

A role in teaching - do not do cover supervisor or teaching assistant, they are v low paid.

AcadeMama · 13/05/2023 19:07

I became a medical writer after 20 years in mental health nursing. If you're good at writing and referencing its a well paid option and training can either be done through an agency (via macclesfield, london, newcastle) or through EMWA or AMWA (european/american medical writers assoc.) It's great.

fatchilli123 · 13/05/2023 19:20

JennieTheZebra · 13/05/2023 17:41

@treetea
You really really need advice from your student union. DON’T DROP OUT YET! Sorry for shouting but this is really important. For health reasons, student finance will fund as many years as you need. You can get this last year “written off” for the purposes of student finance and return when you’re well enough. This is called “Compelling Personal Reasons”. You’ll need evidence of your illness and should get some support from your SU to write the letter. All is not lost! https://www.gov.uk/guidance/going-back-to-uni-or-repeating-a-year

This
Fight for your right to finish it somehow

Montbab · 13/05/2023 19:22

Facial aesthetics are very popular, with your medical knowledge you'd be a trustworthy practioner and could setup your own clinic

Buffs · 13/05/2023 20:09

Osteopath?

yummyscummymummy01 · 13/05/2023 20:24

Absolutely outrageous. I think you need to look into finding some legal advice about disability discrimination. Places are meant to make reasonable adjustments, giving you a bit more time is such a simple thing to do.

nannykatherine · 13/05/2023 21:01

treetea · 12/05/2023 13:10

I have been working towards a midwifery degree since 2019 and I now cannot continue due to a health issue that doesn't affect me day-to-day, but that they feel makes me unsafe to practice.

It is my dream, I have never wanted to do anything else. I was going to use the degree to set up my own business.

I am now at a loss? I have a 4 year old DS and live alone with him.

I am generally quite intelligent, but not a fan of mathematics.

I'd ideally like something with high (ish) earning potential, but I'd settle for less if I loved it.

I don't want to be in healthcare anymore.

I just can't see myself starting from scratch, I'm absolutely gutted.

In all seriousness with your knowledge you will be an amazing private maternity nurse or doula ..

Justontherightsideofnormal · 13/05/2023 21:17

@treetea really gutted for you, hope that you can move forward with this and channel your talents into something else you enjoy 😊

burnoutbabe · 13/05/2023 21:28

Student finance be the people to speak to.

If you had to resit year 2, would they find it as it's due to exceptional health issues.
I am pretty sure they do in those cases. (Though yes it's more loans to pay off in the future)

Macinae · 13/05/2023 21:33

So sorry you're going through this OP. I know you haven't been diagnosed yet but I'm epileptic and a lot of us function quite well thanks to medication.

Missjkay · 13/05/2023 21:34

I really hope there is a way you can repeat the year. I would consider counselling if you can get more funding. Or find a company like mind that may pay you to train. Good luck how frustrating for you.

3luckystars · 13/05/2023 21:39

That is extremely unfair. I would like to see you getting assistance and getting a chance at this. I hope someone on this thread comes forward to help you.

don’t give up on your dream.

Whatelsecouldibecalled · 13/05/2023 21:41

I wouldn't teach (I'm a teacher!) as a single mum. It's a nightmare organising childcare as it is never mind being on your own u less you have great support system. Yes ok you're off in the holidays but my children go to childcare 10 hours a day I see them for 1.5 hours in the evening and then I work again. I also spend at least one afternoon/day over the weekend working. It's a shit work life balance.

I'm so sorry you're having to look at something else. What about baby groups? Baby massage/hypnobirtning/doula etc.

Jenn3112 · 13/05/2023 21:50

treetea · 13/05/2023 17:13

Because I already had to restart 1st year due to being the victim of a crime, so I won't be able to get the funding/loans to complete the degree if I take another interruption.

Are you on an NHS training grant or Student Finance and a bursary? If its Student Finance then you can apply for Compelling Personal Reasons to get an extra year of funding. Not sure how the NHS funding works but you should speak to the Student Support team at your university.

Tootyfilou · 13/05/2023 21:57

@treetea As a senior Midwife with over 30 years experience, both clinically and in education,I beg to differ.
Your training like all medical training in the UK is funded publicly.
whatever you pay for parking each year has literally nothing to do with the cost of your training to the NHS.

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