A friend and I have been kind of skirting around each other for getting on for a couple of years, since we both became single at the same time.
Early on neither of us wanted anything more and we just spent genuine time together as friends in misery 😆
We've now got to a point where we go out quite regularly with friends, occasionally just the two of us and sometimes message a bit in between, but still friends. Except when we dance together which can get quite steamy!
Anyway we were going out with friends this weekend. Logistics made it easier if we met up and travelled to the venue together. Frankly, there were others who could have also shared that taxi, but he didn't suggest it and neither did I.
What he did was suggest he picked up a take away on his way to mine and arrive with 2 hours to eat it and have a drink before going out. In the event he text an hour before that to say he was 10 mins away!
That's just plain rude, right?. I had to go out without make up which isn't that unusual for me Or charming over enthusiasm?
We had a really good evening both before and after we went out.