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Help me make a decision

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Potatobum · 07/05/2023 12:25

Please help me think this through wise mumsnetters.

I’m trying to decide if I should apply for a job or not.

my current job is great. I love what i do, my colleagues are mostly lovely and I feel really fulfilled. However, there are some wider issues in parts of the service that employs me that are casting shadows on my day to day. Specifically some changes that are having a negative impact on colleagues that I don’t feel have been very well thought out, some toxiticy in other parts of the service that are spilling over and also feeling like my manager doesn’t 100% have my back.

a job has come up that is a job I used to do and really love. The team are great and I know I would be really happy there. The main issue really is that it is a pay grade lower. My current role is more senior, so a higher banding. We can afford it, but I can’t quite work out if I’m unhappy enough to take the pay cut. Some days I am. Other days I’m buzzing and so happy in what I do now. Some days I think having less responsibility would be fab. Other days I think it would be frustrating.

I also think I need to factor in that there is a possibility I wouldn’t get the job. I’ll be honest and say I think I have a really good shot at it. I’m more than qualified, have done it before and have a good realtionship with the management team. But, you never know. And I do feel that applying for it would cause some kickback in my current role. Especially with the manger I’m not so sure about. No chance if doing it anonymously as the services are linked and I also feel I should be transparent if I go ahead.

how on earth do I decide? I’m usually a very decisive person, but this has had me going in circles for weeks. Applications close in the next few days, so I need to get sorted.

help??

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HappilyContentTheseDays · 07/05/2023 12:32

I've been in your position in the past, and from my experience, I'd go for it. Try applying....the point is, you'll never know whether you'll get something if you don't go for it. If it's offered you, you will "feel" whether it's right to take it or not. If you don't get offered it, well, it wasn't for you anyway.

Sounds like there are problems where you are, or else you wouldn't be even thinking about this. Looking at something else may be the starting point for you to go somewhere else entirely - who knows? If there's kick-back in your current job, just explain about the wider issues which are impacting on you and maybe there could be some resolution?

You'll never know if you don't do anything.

DustyLee123 · 07/05/2023 13:15

Apply if the closing date is soon, you can then think about it more and see if it feels right.

Potatobum · 07/05/2023 13:18

Thanks @HappilyContentTheseDays - I love your username and that’s where I’m aspiring to!!
you are right about never knowing.
and the things going on where I am
now. None of them impact me that directly, but I’m not enjoying the fall out that does.

resolution is not something I think I’ll achieve with this. I’m pretty sure that applying for it and not getting it would probably make things worse where I am now. That’s the main thing holding me back I think.

times like these I hate being a grown up. I just need an adult to come along and tell me what to do.

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