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Positive stories of turning 50 please x

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WingingItSince1973 · 04/05/2023 00:22

Hi I turned 50 this year and so far have felt nothing but dread. Like this is the slow decline to old age and death! Yep I'm such a positive person 😂 I've had my kids and have a dgs who I see almost daily after school. I also have a 17 yr old at home and my eldest dd back with us for a year. My life is full and happy. I have great friends, marriage of 27 years, both sets of parents still alive and very active. But I feel like it's too late to achieve great things now or branch out in a different career path. I've had to stop working for 8 years now due to chronic illness. I can do odd days here and there but can't commit to anything. We not well off but don't go without. Why do I feel like this is it now? I don't feel old enough in my head to be half a century. I know many old friends didn't make it to my age so I am grateful for that and feel selfish. Is this menopause hormones messing with me? Please give me a kick up the bum!!!!

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Ochre247 · 04/05/2023 00:25

I'm much happier at 50 than I was at 30! So much more confident and happy in myself. Less pressure to conform. I really enjoyed turning 50 last year and am having lots of fun, doing things that I want to do. Hope you can see the positive and get confidence from your experience of life to date. All the best xx

WingingItSince1973 · 04/05/2023 23:10

Thanks lovely for your reply xxxx

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trisfreya · 04/05/2023 23:19

My first instinct is to say fgs woman, it's a number, it's just nothing really

But then I re read your post, and the issue is not your age, its what you feel you have done/not done on your way there.

50 is not the end, its not old not today - I think 65 is old, and 85 is ancient

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