Cheat

[TD7]

Hi I need to know what you guys think …my partner went on holiday we were on a break so he went alone …I found out he flew a girl out 30 years younger and had sex with her I only found out when he got back and we decided to get back together…I looked on his fb messages and found out about this young woman I was completely heartbroken he admitted it and said it only happened once we are 5 years down the line and I still cannot move on from it I don’t feel I’ve had the whole truth and I know more happened

We decided to get back together then I found out

5 years ago? If everything else is ok, I would let this go

I know I haven’t had the whole truth I keep on and keep on and now he tells me he lied about using a condom he didn’t use one …he has abused me in the past split my eye open cracked my ribs and poured drinks over my head in front of everyone although this was a few years ago we went for a meal last week and because I wouldn’t park where he wanted me to he called me a fucking idiot ….this man is well known in my town and lots of ppl are scared of him I stay because I’m scared if I’m honest as he will never let me move on …Kangarude thanks for replying

What more do you need to know about this dirty old man?

Ok, you’re not posting about his recent possible cheating, are you?

You sound scared and in desperate need to leave.

i can’t help with this myself I won’t waste your time. But there’s plenty of people on here who will be along with practical help and support.

I hope you can break free.

In view of your last post, him cheating is the last thing to worry about. I know you are scared, but you need to get out. Even if it was a few years ago, violent people almost never change.

I know …I have actually left him now just wanted to know if I was being unreasonable in doing so he has changed in the last 4 years although he does still disrespect me sometimes like telling to to go fuck myself or your a fucking idiot

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I know it makes me sick to my stomach I’ve stayed in this relationship for 13 tears had so much done to me …I feel insecure about myself he said all I will get is meaningless one nighters