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Urgsleepmoresleep · 26/04/2023 09:32

Been with DP for a year. Amazing guy and we are moving in together in a few weeks. we only see each other few times a week due to distance. But confident we will become stronger.

My friend has commented that DP and I never post about each other on social media. In fact out status still says single. There is the odd picture and tag, but would have to look hard to think we are together. She thinks it is odd that he never tags me and is very active on social media. No profile picture change etc.

we both are not bothered about changing status or constantly recording our time together on social media. Friend has concluded he is hiding me and doesn’t want his social media to know we are together. We are not secret about our relationship, met family and friends and I am moving to his in 2 weeks - just not public on social media.

We also don’t have many pictures together. Is this an odd comment? I feel I should be upset or change my status, but as a woman in my 40s this is not important

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Vivalaive · 26/04/2023 09:44

Best advice I can give is keep your relationship off social media! It’s your business- no one else’s. You have nothing to prove and oddly, your friend sounds more insecure than you do!

SouthCountryGirl · 26/04/2023 09:44

I find it odd that they care so much. I mean not all of us want everyone to know our business

Urgsleepmoresleep · 26/04/2023 14:22

I know. It was made out that we were still in the non-exclusive stage. Not official as not SM official and we never post activities.

she found it odd that he would check in to s place and not tag me, even though we are together. I wasn’t fussed.

partner and I never talked about it. It’s just what we do. We are out in public so it’s not like I am hiding

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