My child is 8 and we're having some difficulties at the moment. They are friends with a group of girls that all hug and do the besties thing but when my child joins in they are shunned. They all hug in a group and when my child joins in they shrugged off.
Ive explained that you always need to be sure that you only give hugs that are wanted and not to be too clingy as some people don't like it. Its so hard to see this happen though as it seems its just my child they dont want to hug.
They have gotten into a new group at school recently and today have found out that they have been kicked out this group for hugging.
Apart from reinforcing the consent side to it and to try and find friends that are similar then im not sure what else to do.
They are such a sweet kindhearted child in reality who just is very tactile