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Jumplead · 20/04/2023 14:19

Answer into an interrogation from an ex with a deep emotional disturbance?

It feels to me as if it's a power trip he's on.

I nearly caved at breaking no contact in an effort to achieve peace. Theres so many messages and emails and points from him and an interrogation.

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GU9 · 20/04/2023 14:37

Why would you?

I absolutely wouldn't.

IamSmarticus · 20/04/2023 14:53

Do you have children together and so have to communicate? If not, delete his number and block him from SM. And NO, I wouldn't answer anything an ex was asking if I didn't want to.

Skybluepinky · 20/04/2023 15:04

No of course not.

dontgobaconmyheart · 20/04/2023 15:10

No? if you have DC then get a separate phone/and email address that you can use to communicate about said DC, and block him on all of your personal phones/emails/social media. Only reply directly to that which is to do with the DC and nothing else, nothing more, consider speaking to a solicitor about his contact with you if it worries you or feels harassing.

Ultimately it doesn't really matter whether he's on a power trip or not, or what you think of it. Trying to work it out won't change it, presumably he is an ex for very valid reasons. I'd be arranging the above and focusing myself entirely on anything but him.

Jumplead · 20/04/2023 15:35

There is no children thank goodness.

It does seem as if he wants me to work through some of his points and issues but I think it's interrogation and I also think it won't do anything to help. I think whatever I say will be pulled apart anyways.

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