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Gap in fence to fill

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Mynameisntrelevant · 08/04/2023 08:57

Our neighbours have a large section ( 3m) of garden with no fence between us and them. They're elderly and like this, been like this fir a few years. Problem is its right by our patio abd they love to garden,whenever we go out in the nice weather I feel they're straight over chatting away. I like them we do talk, they've got family close so mot lonely, but sometimes I want to sit and enjoy a quiet coffee alone.!
I want to put some sort of screen up, dh thinks it's rude now, I'm thinking a grass screen but there's no fence to attach it to so I'm open to ideas! It's too big a space to fill with plants- would cost us a fortune!

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gkd1234 · 08/04/2023 09:02

Put your own fence up inside your boundary. We did this as we knew that it would be impossible to get our old neighbour to agree / contribute to a shared one on the actual boundary.

It's not an unreasonable thing to want a fence, but if you're worried you could always say you were thinking of getting a dog - they might not like the fence but they wouldn't like the thought of your hypothetical dog running around their garden either.

BabsDylan · 08/04/2023 09:04

Yes you could put the fence up on your boundary.

We had no fence at all between ours and next door,he rents his house out so didn’t care!
After a couple of years of nagging I arranged the fence to go up on the proper boundary and we have paid half each.

have a chat with them and see what they say.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 08/04/2023 09:09

Trellis . It makes a boundary without being as looming as a fence. You can exchange the odd word through it , but it does discourage long conversations. You can grow a few plants up it as an excuse to them .

We did this to make a boundary between our neighbours’ and our windows and paths ( not that they were intrusive).

when I have got up I’ll take a pic of ours to show what I mean

Mynameisntrelevant · 08/04/2023 10:29

@Allthegoodnamesarechosen tha k you I would live to see it, sounds like a good idea. I feel if we put a fence up it may offend them! We have chatted about a fence- there's blew down about 2 years ago, they pit a tiny bit of trellis up abd then left a gap until the bushes make a natural fence.

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