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Aaaarrggghh! 7 unsuccessful interviews. What to do?

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UnsuccessfulCandidate · 06/04/2023 15:23

Just got the call saying I was unsuccessful at interview AGAIN!

I even shelled out for a new trouser suit and shoes for this one!

These are just admin roles which I have years of experience in.

Always the same thing - you were great but the role was given to someone already working in the area (NHS x 2 interviews), or someone had more current experience, or not the right fit etc.

I really need a job as resigned from last one in February. So frustrated and getting worried now. Last job I got with first interview and they called me to offer within an hour.

Whats the most amount of interviews you have had before you got a job, just to make me feel a bit better?

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SaltyGod · 06/04/2023 15:35

Think of each interview as good practice and a lesson learnt.

I went through a phase of not getting the job, it was so disheartening. I decided to analyse each question and work out which one had let me down, in some cases it was more obvious than others. I was trying to find my perceived weakness.

I then practiced answering that question with a better answer. And I gathered data on my perceived weakness so I could asap say 'on this topic I have achieved x'

I did then get the job, in an area that focused on the 'weakness'

It will come and your suit will be totally worth it Flowers

SaltyGod · 06/04/2023 15:36

P.s I was probably also on 7 interviews at this point, several of which were final rounds where it was me vs one other Angry

SunshineAndFizz · 06/04/2023 15:38

Keep going, you'll get something.

Make sure you ask for honest and specific feedback after each one.

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user1471543094 · 06/04/2023 15:50

Sympathising. At least you are getting one step further than I am.

Used to love my job but things have changed last 18 months. Finally bit the bullet towards end of last year and applied for an amazing job locally (small town - not many of these come up!) V narrowly missed out and I am still totally gutted about it.

I have applied for loads of other jobs since (only going for public sector type jobs) and not even getting an interview? Again only admin-y type things that I could do in my sleep - have 20 years of experience - and yet not even pulling an interview? Its so shit.
Any my mood with my current employer is off the charts bad because I feel like I have one foot out the door mentally.

user1471543094 · 06/04/2023 15:52

Also it is bloody soul destroying having to fill in form after form to apply for anything.
WHY can they not just accept a CV?! And maybe ask you to develop essential criteria aspects or something.

Piffpaffpoff · 06/04/2023 15:56

I'm on a run of 3 with no successful outcome - all have given specific, constructive and very helpful feedback which I am actioning but it's so frustrating isn't it?

I am doing what @SaltyGod has suggested - treat each new interview as an opportunity to try out new answers or focus on specific areas I might have missed or not been as strong on in previous ones. After each one, I try and record any new types of questions or scenarios they have asked and make sure I have a good answer banked for that in future. And I just keep plugging on

MileEndMillenial · 06/04/2023 16:00

I had 5 unsuccessful ones this year, then had 3 companies fighting over me last week. I’ve accepted a new role and got myself a 20% payrise as well. It’s disheartening but keep going. You’ll get there. Definitely asked for detailed feedback

user1471543094 · 06/04/2023 16:05

For the other responders - were yous in employment when applying? Its so awkward to get time off for interview - especially if going for more than one?!
My current work almost need a full written explanation as to why you even want your annual leave - random days off are not appreciated.

user1471543094 · 06/04/2023 16:05

MileEndMillenial · 06/04/2023 16:00

I had 5 unsuccessful ones this year, then had 3 companies fighting over me last week. I’ve accepted a new role and got myself a 20% payrise as well. It’s disheartening but keep going. You’ll get there. Definitely asked for detailed feedback

20% - wowzers!!

Myogapants · 06/04/2023 16:10

Same OP.

The "you aren't a great fit" is usually an age discrimination thing.

Last week I had "sorry we went with another candidate who had no responsibilities outside of work so could be more flexible"

  1. I didn't mention I had children so they FB stalked me. Standard I guess

  2. they're going to work the successful candidate into the ground and I'm glad I avoided such a horrible toxic workplace

I was told to my face that I was old for digital marketing! 😳 jeez thanks.

Keep plodding on.

Myogapants · 06/04/2023 16:14

Also the local authority made me go through a 14 page application form, 3 interviews, 2 pre interview references to then tell me they had ALREADY filled the role 4 weeks prior to an internal candidate.

Fucking waste of everyone's fucking time. Assholes 😂

Do you know how awkward it is asking for a pre interview reference when you still work in your current job?? I'm so fucking annoyed still.

Assholes. 😂

daisydalrymple · 06/04/2023 16:14

Given you’re going for admin roles, could you register with a temp agency in the meantime? Sometimes it’s as simple as a gap on your cv. You might then get a bit of short term varied experience to draw on too. Good luck!

HelpsHeal · 06/04/2023 16:20

Why did you resign from the last job with nowhere to go and how do you answer that question? You need a good answer because IME (and presumably others') the reason often becomes apparent when they start the next job. It's rarely a good thing.

I'm afraid I'd take the feedback with a pinch of salt, they're just saying "something". They're not going to make it too personal

FortyFacedFuckers · 06/04/2023 16:51

Op I work in the NHS can I ask what band you are looking for?

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 19/07/2023 20:51
  1. Fucking. Years.

7 years of interviews and rejection to finally break into the animal care sector.

Level 2, 3, 4 vocational qualifications
A Bachelor's degree
A Master's degree

And a minimum wage job, but I'm finally in the sector I love!

PonyPatter44 · 19/07/2023 20:55

I don't suppose you're in Buckinghamshire, by any chance? I am DESPERATE for admin staff, literally crying out for people. Unfortunately because its civil service, its not brilliantly paid and people don't apply.

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