It can be done. It can be done cheaply. DS's ambition is to be an actor on west end stage and who loves to go to the theatre.
We get cheap tickets - book when they're first released, we get restricted view n(getting to know which are going to spoil the performance and which aren't (saw My Neighbour Totoro at Barbican and could only see half the stage which was not so good).
We have joined theatre mailing lists that send offers and seat filling opportunities.
We enter the lotteries that most theatres offer and we have been lucky to get Harry Potter & The Cursed Child tickets and Cabaret through the lottery - £25 for stalls to see Cabaret which are normally £200+!!!
There is some amazing stuff out there and you can get tickets affordably.
You just have to plan a little. We have seen so far this year for the price of a takeaway and we're only just out of March.
Noises Off £30 each (the most expensive tickets I have bought for a while)
Macbeth £5 each
The Mind Mangler £20
Local Youth Theatre £10
The Unfriend £22
Harry Potter £40 (£20 per part - Friday 40 lottery tickets).
We have tickets booked for the new Stranger Things one, Rocky Horror Show, Groundhog Day, and Dr Simmelweis in the next few months - and I will keep an eye out for bargains and offers.
The big shows can be pricey but deals are out there - Wicked for less than £5 each, Lion King for £20 something both stalls (both disappointing). Matilda stalls £25. TBH I am not interested in Hamilton or Lloyd Webber as not my kind of thing. I would have liked to see Streetcar but you can't win them all...
We do have the bonus of living in London and so we don't have to factor in travel or accommodation - but I know that many of the seat filling and bargain ticket sites also work for the regional theatres.
Theatre has always been this way - as a child when my parents took me, we'd look down on the people in the stalls from the back of the highest balcony and wish to be closer, but my parents couldn't afford it. It didn't stop us from loving it, it didn't affect our enjoyment of the show.
If you are taking kids - take them - they will still love it, don't worry about only taking them if you can get 'good' seats - any seat is better than not taking your child to the theatre at all...