Hello all, am pondering things tonight and would like to know if there are other people who feel the same as me. I am 35, happily married and have a DS. As I have gotten older I am starting to give less and less of a shit about well…most things. Besides my family and very small amount of friends I just have zero time and tolerance for anything else. I don’t care what people think of me which has never been like me. I was always a people pleaser, running around for everyone, a good friend and got pretty much nothing back and now have reached a stage where I could quite gladly say piss and walk away (which I have from many using swines over the last year) I do what I want, if I want to cancel plans because I am not feeling it I will and I have stepped back from making so much effort with people. Is it meant to feel this liberating? Is this normal? I just love being in my beautiful home and enjoy reading my books of an evening I just don’t care for going out here there and everywhere socialising.