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What's the hardest decision you've ever had to make?

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pinkoveralls · 29/03/2023 17:32

Do you regret it or not?

For me,
I was married to the man I thought was the love of my life, he was my everything, my only friend and family around, and we were expecting our first baby.

I was in early labour when I went on his phone, with his permission, and found images of child sexual abuse. I confronted him, he admitted to it.
I called the police on him, no other solution obviously.
The decision was necessary but the shock of finding everything out and knowing I had pressed the nuke button on our lives as I knew it and the hopes of my child ever having a normal childhood was the hardest thing I'd ever had to do.

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bloodywhitecat · 29/03/2023 17:54

Signing DH's DNAR. I knew it was necessary but it was incredibly hard, as was telling each person that came into the house to help with his care.

pinkoveralls · 29/03/2023 17:55

bloodywhitecat · 29/03/2023 17:54

Signing DH's DNAR. I knew it was necessary but it was incredibly hard, as was telling each person that came into the house to help with his care.

I'm so sorry to hear

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Greensleevevssnotnose · 29/03/2023 17:56

My first divorce. He didn't want kids. I did. No compromise with that

Sapphire387 · 29/03/2023 18:37

Like @bloodywhitecat, it was decisions to do with my first DH's end of life care.

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