I think people need to stop repeating the "I heard a psychologist say that we're all on the spectrum" - as people remember this stuff, and no amount of trying to correct it later seems to stick!
Hopefully this isn't sounding aggressive as that's not my intention. It's just so thoroughly frustrating battling this all of the time. My DC have enough struggles, this whole mantra of "we're all a little bit autistic" stops others taking their needs seriously and adds to the whole "well, just try harder then!" school of thought.
I think professionals should consider the weight of their words, and have some sense of responsibility before issuing personal opinions that others might take as fact. Imagine if a psychologist said "I think people will epilepsy could stop having fits if they just tried a bit harder" - it would be equally ridiculous and really irresponsible. No one would take it seriously. And yet, psychologists - it's nearly always bloody psychologists! - trot out personal opinions that seem to contradict the latest research, and people listen and believe. Gah!
I think sometimes it can be helpful to have celebrities talk about autism/ADHD etc. It does help to dispel the myth that we're all like Rain Man!
I've not been the biggest fan of Christine McGuiness as I feel it's a bit of a pity party - even the way her and Paddy talked about their autistic children was all very much "woe is me, my life as a parent is hard because my children are autistic". I don't really appreciate that mindset, or the fact of their children's autism being used as public currency. And I do feel that's the case sometimes, like Katie Price and Harvey. She has done some great things - and I'm not a fan of hers generally - but in other ways she's traded on his autism to boost her own profile. I think that's the bit about celebrity autistics that bothers me the most - those that seem to use autism to enhance their career.
Chris Packham is one that I think is more authentic, and I think he's doing amazing work in increasing awareness, and acceptance.
I watched that multi-part series on Elon Musk and he's a fascinating character. I think it does underline the fact that being autistic doesn't mean you can't be a bit of an arse sometimes. And also, that sometimes being autistic means you're not always aware of how you come across. I think that a lot of the time he means well but does get some things very wrong. I'm a Brit so there's also a cultural difference, and influences how I perceive him.
I don't think the public in general understand how all-encompassing autism is. And that even if you're successful, you can still endure huge personal struggles. It's like millionaire footballers who suffer from depression or mental health issues - look at all the comments from people along the lines of "what have they got to be depressed about?!" The public in general aren't sympathetic if you're outwardly successful - nuance is hard to convey.