pointythings · Today 19:24
I've just read some of those stories on the Safe Schools alliance page and while some concerns are valid, others are just pearl clutching. What's wrong with talking about masturbation and sex toys? At age 11-12, quite a few boys will be having wet dreams - should that be shut down too?
Maybe it's because I had sex education in the Netherlands where there's a lot less prudery, but I have no time for this movement.
I’ve come to see the term ‘pearl clutching’ on here as a posters way of shutting down conversations.
This is not a ‘movement’ but a reaction coming from ordinary parents who know their own children.
The Netherlands oddly have high rates of porn based on children being abused. There is nothing necessarily so impressive about the mental health around sex in the Netherlands.
Press reports in 2008 described a large rise in the number of child pornography websites hosted in the Netherlands, increasing from 100 reports of sites in 2006 to 700 in 2007.[11]
In 2020 the European Commissionreported that in 2019 The Netherlands hosted 71% of the child sexual abuse material detected in Europe by the Internet Watch Foundation, an increase from 47% in 2018.[12]