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Activity ideas for depressed teen with ASD

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MadameThenardier · 24/03/2023 20:44

Does anyone have any suggestions of activities or clubs/groups that a teen with ASD might enjoy.

DS has been struggling with depression and he feels there’s no point in his life. He’s indicated that he would like to do something that would help him feel worthwhile. He said he was open to maybe trying a new activity.

Generally speaking he only leaves the house to go to his specialist school. So far every activity I’ve suggested he’s rejected.

His main interests are animals/birds, drawing, and Marvel Snap. Oh and Cats

He used to ride horses but stopped because it’s ‘boring’ (and nothing to do with the fact he got thrown). ‘Boring’ is the word he uses to describe to describe anything he dislikes. He has no interest in sports.

Activities I suggested are: Singing/Dancing/Performing Arts (he’s actually very talented in this area but dislikes following instructions), joining a Choir, RAF Cadets, Scouts, and Photography

I’m running out of ideas…

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warmmfeet · 28/03/2023 13:30

I'm not sure how old he is but what about some voluntary work somewhere that interests him. It might give him a sense of responsibility and a feeling of purpose. I have experience in finding voluntary work for people with mental health problems and I'm sure many employers would be open to a discussion about his ASD and any related needs he might have to help it go as smoothly as possible.

warmmfeet · 28/03/2023 13:31

Oh sorry just seen your cat rescue post! Brilliant good luck

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Mabelface · 28/03/2023 13:34

Another vote for dungeons and dragons. This can be done online or at meet ups. The nd is strong in a lot of these groups. My 3 nd boys love these. Also second the geek cafe idea. Eldest goes to one in Manchester every Sunday.

BlackeyedSusan · 28/03/2023 14:32

DoughnutDreams · 24/03/2023 21:12

(Or people with asd), I'm not sure of correct or preferred terminology but as ND person, I mean well!

Autistic people is fine

MadameThenardier · 28/03/2023 17:43

We are in the North East. I’ve just checked and our local wildlife trust has a young rangers and they are meeting this weekend. DS has agreed to go! 🤞🏼

His favourite subject at school is horticulture and looking after the chickens

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GoodVibesHere · 28/03/2023 18:08

Get an allotment plot, or a patch of your garden for him to grow veg? Or herbs in containers?

Bonsai trees indoors for him to maintain? This is more of a hobby than an activity as it won't take up lods of time really, but you could get some bonsai books from the library.

Bunnyhascovidnoteggs · 28/03/2023 22:05

I am north east and desperately need help on my allotment.. Hoping to get chickens soon also!

BlueChampagne · 29/03/2023 13:05

Sounds good - please come back and let us know how he gets on.

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