It’s dependent on the phrasing
eg the example quoted was to add a negative number to a number, but didn’t clarify that the second number had generally been positive
-5 add 5 means the same as 5-5
You can think of adding and subtracting on a ruler, move right when adding and move left when subtracting
To allow for below zero use two rulers
The middle is zero
The left ruler is treated as negative
The right ruler as positive
So if you start treating -5 as number 5 on the left
Then takeaway 5 by counting 5 to the left and you come to 10 on the left which gives you -10