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Why is everything about MH these days?

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JaneFondue · 22/03/2023 09:01

I am really tired of the way everyone is constantly talking about their mental health journey, even in professional areas.

I needed to hire a photographer for a conference. Was recommended someone by a friend. Her professional page is all about her mental health journey, her 'depression' after every shoot, her existential angst. No information about prices, packages, testimonials. I didn't hire her but why would anyone?

Not the first time I have seen inappropriate mentions of MH. So many young people appear to splash it across their social media profiles. It just makes me wary of hiring them.

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cornflakegeneration · 22/03/2023 19:23

I remember about 25 years ago I was suffering with quite bad depression and I had to speak to my manager about some time off I'd had. It took me so much courage to admit what was really going on. I'd previously said I was unwell with a kidney infection and I had to admit to lying because I'd been so ashamed to tell the truth.
She was lovely and shared that her sister had also suffered with depression which I found amazing as I felt like I was the only one.
I feel like it was taken really seriously but I wonder if the same conversation took place today it would be more of a sigh and an eye roll?
It's almost become worse for people in the situation I was in.

Chilloutsnow · 22/03/2023 19:51

@Courgeon

Agree 💯 percent. Those people who really, really need help now have less resources.

Eastie77Returns · 22/03/2023 21:13

Doyoumind · 22/03/2023 17:32

LinkedIn has just become another place for people to post self indulgent nonsense. It makes me cringe. It should be about professional networking not people's personal lives. People may respond kindly in messages, but they aren't going to be rushing to give you their money, whatever they say.

I've had my own MH struggles in the past and acted very cautiously about sharing information at work having seen how being open impacted on someone else's career. I want us to be able to remove the stigma that means people can be pushed out of their jobs, but everyone presenting the slightest hiccup as a battle isn't helping anyone.

To my mind LinkedIn has just become another version of Facebook. I have an active LN profile for work purposes and to keep in touch with some professional contacts but I rarely post anything. The amount of personal stuff I see on there now is indeed cringeworthy.

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