I've lived in Bristol for many years and always really loved out, great city, punches well above its weight, exciting place etc. And yet recently I've started to fall out of love with it a bit. It looks shabby, has lots of derelict buildings, crap traffic, looks ugly. I have never felt this before. Could it be a reflection of being menopausal and finding 90% of things a bit rubbish? Or is it really down at heel and a fading, tired city? And if the latter, where is better?