Not sure why I'm posting here except I feel I need to put it down on paper......I am married have 3 children, work 31 hrs a week in a very stressful job......my problem is homelife really. I feel everything I do is for my kids. I am constantly cooking,paying and bringing them to and from places. My husband has minimal wage job and does farming ( which means after work he's not home till late cause of farm work) farm is 60 min drive away (he inherited it). I am the breadwinner.....but also cook, cleaner (husband will help out when home but never to my standard) . My family are 3 hour drive away. And I have lost contact with friends over the years. My kids are 14,11 and 8. My 11 year old has learning difficulties and is very difficult to handle at times. Please tell me I'm not alone and things will improve.