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If you were a Victorian, what would you have died of?

636 replies

AhoyThereShipmates · 17/03/2023 15:45

Reading a children’s book to my daughter that is partly set in a Victorian workhouse and it got me thinking.

I had a broken collarbone aged 9, and a pulmonary embolism, and then of course childbirth. If I was Victorian any of these might have killed me, but my money is on childbirth. DH reckons he would have been carted off to an asylum with unusual thoughts and would have just wasted away. Go on, indulge me.

If you were a Victorian, what would you have died of?

OP posts:
BigFloppa · 17/03/2023 18:48

I was seriously burnt as a child so probably from an infection of the burns!

ToBeOrNotToBee · 17/03/2023 18:49

Probably wouldn't even have made my 1st birthday.

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 17/03/2023 18:49

Childbirth I also had gallstones and think I'd have died from them eventually.

Whatafool123 · 17/03/2023 18:49

I would never have been born as both my parents had perforated appendixes as kids, and my father also had diphtheria.

Had I made it into the world somehow, I would have died either through toxoplasmosis at 9 (if that kills you) or Hodgkins Lymphoma at 20-odd. If those hadn't done the job, childbirth would have probably.

RosaBonheur · 17/03/2023 18:50

I'd most likely have died at or before birth (was born by emergency C-section).

I've also had an emergency C-section but not being able to have that would most likely have endangered my son, not me.

Zuffe · 17/03/2023 18:50

Zulu spear

Drumminganimal · 17/03/2023 18:52

Ectopic pregnancy, fallopian tube had ruptured, I had internal bleeding and I would have died without emergency surgery.

NooNakedJacuzziness · 17/03/2023 18:55

Natural decay. There's a cheery thought.

Fam23 · 17/03/2023 18:56

MobyJeff · 17/03/2023 15:52

Disobedience

Hahah I second this! It

Thepossibility · 17/03/2023 18:59

I'd have died at birth as I was extremely premature. DH would have died as child of a twisted bowel so my kids wouldn't be here.
Interesting thread.

Heavensalongwayaway · 17/03/2023 18:59

Poverty.

HuggingtheHRT · 17/03/2023 18:59

Giving birth....

LP9 · 17/03/2023 18:59

Epilepsy or appendicitis

Newnamenewname109870 · 17/03/2023 19:01

probably my birth from the sound of things.

Most of us would have died either at birth or in their first five years of life.

queenofthewild · 17/03/2023 19:04

My grandmother was the eldest of 8 children born in Victorian London. All but one of them survived to adulthood where they lived into their 89s and 90s. The one who died in childhood sadly drowned.

I'd like to hope that I inherited their strong genes, but it's more likely I wouldn't have made it past the bout of whooping cough I had when I was 4.

Siriusmuggle · 17/03/2023 19:07

Possibly child birth- baby got a bit stuck. If I’d survived that then it would have been pleurisy- it almost hospitalised me despite 2 sorts of antibiotics simultaneously so I’d have been a goner in Victorian times.

FatYogaLady · 17/03/2023 19:12

lljkk · 17/03/2023 18:20

I'd still be going, actually.
DH might have been carried off by HIb pneumonia, before DC3-4 were conceived.
My mom would have died from an incomplete miscarriage in 1971, though.
My dad survived meningitis age 2, but pre antibiotic era, so I guess he'd have lived, too.
DC1 could have been done in by a peritonsillar abscess.
DC2-4 should still be with us if DH lived along to make his contribution to their existence.

Oh yes. I didn't think about ancestors. My maternal grandmother would have died of type 2 diabetes before any of her children were born. This woman was very healthy in shape and seemingly born and died on a bicycle and lived to be 95 years old. She took very good care of herself. So it was purely genetic. She talked a lot about the lack of understanding of the disease when she was a kid as it developed in her young teens. As she was born in the early 1930's. She was sick a lot so when she was young so when she started her insulin she felt like there was a lot of trial and error on her body that she had to figure out on her own. Very hit and miss for awhile. She took very good care of her body once she got a handle on the medication and diet.

FatYogaLady · 17/03/2023 19:12

Sorry I said early 1930's but meant to type late 1930's*

neverendinglauaundry · 17/03/2023 19:13

I might have died in childbirth with my first child. He would have died too.

Climbles · 17/03/2023 19:17

My own birth, then an appendicitis, failing that probably a massive opium addiction. Victorian times seem boring for ‘ladies’.

Franticbutterfly · 17/03/2023 19:19

Childbirth. Twice.

anerki101 · 17/03/2023 19:21

My own birth.
Salmonella poisoning at 6.
Tooth infection in 20s.
Childbirth 20s.
Ear infection.
Another tooth infection.

Tbh, I think I'd take my own birth over the rest. The rest would be very painful deaths.

gluenotsoup · 17/03/2023 19:22

I was a premature baby in the 70’s, I wouldn’t have survived in the Victorian times. If by a miracle I did, I would have died from a partial molar pregnancy and if I survived that I would definitely have bled to death in childbirth with my child dying too.
Its very sobering 😬

Jellykat · 17/03/2023 19:22

Childbirth first time around

ladygindiva · 17/03/2023 19:29

Definitely quinsy. I had it three times, aged from 19 to 25 then they took my tonsils out thank god. If I'd survived that I think I would have died in childbirth with my twins; they were largish and both breech. Thank the lord for elcs.