I've NC for this. Firstly, this is NOT a stealth boast.
I am absolutely sick of DH wasting money. He appears to have no concept about the increased cost of living, or if he does, he doesn't care. Examples:
Leaving all the doors open all round the house so no part of it ever gets properly warm. His response is to turn the heating up - just close the doors FFS! We live in a draughty period property - it's never going to be completely warm all at once.
Having every radiator in the house blasting out heat - even in rooms that don't get used for days at a time. If I turn them off they are back on within hours.
Over cooking so that we have enough food for six people at least (only two of us and a baby here). And it's not stuff that will keep easily so it all gets thrown away.
Not doing proper supermarket shops, he prefers to wander in a few times a week and spend £50 a time.
Not making sure he actually eats what's in the fridge before it expires, so again so much food goes to waste.
Upgrading his very expensive sports equipment when what he has is perfectly fine (being a bit cautious here in case it's outing).
Never buying just one of anything - always two minimum. Which is fine when it's washing up liquid, not so fine when it's bikes or paddle boards.
I'm sick of it! He does work very hard and earn a lot of money and all this stuff can be afforded, but at the cost of not saving. We have no rainy day fund at all. He thinks this is fine because of the salary going into his bank account every month - but what happens if he suddenly can't work for whatever reason? What happens if the mortgage doesn't get paid? I'm not working atm because our son is only four months old so I am completely financially reliant on him.
I feel like I'm banging my head against a brick wall and I have no clue how to make him see sense! I'd appreciate any advice!