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It's giving Pollyanna

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bananafish · 12/03/2023 19:15

So, my family have completely forgotten that it's Mother's Day. Not a mention, not a card, not a flower, in sight.

I don't know how you can miss it but apparently it's possible. Bringing it up seems embarrassing.

In my best attempt at resilience, and bringing a bit of Pollyanna to it, I went out earlier and bought myself some flowers and a bottle of wine and turned off my social media to avoid all the 'lunch at the Wolseley - feeling so spoilt!" posts.

I appreciate it's not a reflection on my parenting (or maybe it is) but my feelings are hurt. Justifiably or not.

To any other mothers out there who are having a less than stellar Mothering Sunday, I hope you feel better soon and the sting fades soon.

OP posts:
MrsOvertonsWindow · 12/03/2023 19:26

Bless you OP. Take Arabella's cuppa and chill.

thepurplepenguin · 12/03/2023 19:27

My DH also thought Mothering Sunday was today. He moon-pigged me a card and chocolates as he is currently abroad, bless him😂

Dartmoorcheffy · 12/03/2023 19:29

This is hilarious. Did the lack of "My dh didn't get me anything " posts on here not make you check. Maybe you should have gone on social media too . 🤣🤣🤣

HaggisBurger · 12/03/2023 19:29

thepurplepenguin · 12/03/2023 19:27

My DH also thought Mothering Sunday was today. He moon-pigged me a card and chocolates as he is currently abroad, bless him😂

Brace for turning “moon pig” into a verb!

tiredhadenough · 12/03/2023 19:31

Oh @bananafish I hope next weekend will be better! I've just told mine I want breakfast in bed next Sunday!

Tink1990 · 12/03/2023 19:31

Woah, my heart slipped a beat then! I felt terrible! But yerp, deffo next week is mother's day 😁

Itsgottobeme · 12/03/2023 19:32

A part of me just died right then! Fucking.hell

jizzlord · 12/03/2023 19:35

I love Mumsnet on Mothering Sunday but it's definitely next week 😉

LakeTiticaca · 12/03/2023 19:37

I'll let you know next Sunday 😉 🤣

JudgyVonHolierThanThou · 12/03/2023 19:40

I’m not in the UK (but did pause to think - where are all the MD FB posts from my UK friends??), so it’s not Mother’s Day here.

I’m just posting for the realisation post from the OP!

thepurplepenguin · 12/03/2023 19:40

HaggisBurger · 12/03/2023 19:29

Brace for turning “moon pig” into a verb!

I'm hoping to star in a Pedant's Corner thread very shortly...

Ceryneianhind · 12/03/2023 19:41

Ooops

SittingNextToIt · 12/03/2023 19:42

bananafish · 12/03/2023 19:15

So, my family have completely forgotten that it's Mother's Day. Not a mention, not a card, not a flower, in sight.

I don't know how you can miss it but apparently it's possible. Bringing it up seems embarrassing.

In my best attempt at resilience, and bringing a bit of Pollyanna to it, I went out earlier and bought myself some flowers and a bottle of wine and turned off my social media to avoid all the 'lunch at the Wolseley - feeling so spoilt!" posts.

I appreciate it's not a reflection on my parenting (or maybe it is) but my feelings are hurt. Justifiably or not.

To any other mothers out there who are having a less than stellar Mothering Sunday, I hope you feel better soon and the sting fades soon.

Is this some kind of attempt to create a thread that makes it to Classics? Because it isn’t all that.

Mammyloveswine · 12/03/2023 19:44

Awkward....

cheeseisthebest · 12/03/2023 19:52

Just placemarking for when the OP comes back!!!

ChickenRat · 12/03/2023 19:53

I suspect OP isn't coming back @cheeseisthebest 😂

itsgettingweird · 12/03/2023 19:54

I was reading this thinking - it's not until next week?!

Turns out I'm right.

flexigirl · 12/03/2023 19:54

Oh god OP I did this last year ! Felt sorry for myself before realising I'd fucked up the dates 😂

Lamplighters · 12/03/2023 19:55

I know Mothers Day is next week but do people really get this upset? I won’t get anything for Mother’s Day, I already know that, it’s only my second so my son can’t do anything and DHwont.

Redglitter · 12/03/2023 19:56

😂😂😂

God OP I hope you haven't given your family a hard time for 'forgetting'

CandyLeBonBon · 12/03/2023 19:57

bananafish · 12/03/2023 19:15

So, my family have completely forgotten that it's Mother's Day. Not a mention, not a card, not a flower, in sight.

I don't know how you can miss it but apparently it's possible. Bringing it up seems embarrassing.

In my best attempt at resilience, and bringing a bit of Pollyanna to it, I went out earlier and bought myself some flowers and a bottle of wine and turned off my social media to avoid all the 'lunch at the Wolseley - feeling so spoilt!" posts.

I appreciate it's not a reflection on my parenting (or maybe it is) but my feelings are hurt. Justifiably or not.

To any other mothers out there who are having a less than stellar Mothering Sunday, I hope you feel better soon and the sting fades soon.

Oh dear...

GoodbyeErinsborough · 12/03/2023 19:59

GrinGrinGrinGin

blackpinkinyourarea · 12/03/2023 20:07

SittingNextToIt · 12/03/2023 19:42

Is this some kind of attempt to create a thread that makes it to Classics? Because it isn’t all that.

Yes this is what i am wondering as well!! Definitely a false post and not Classics worthy.

GlassBunion · 13/03/2023 08:11

Just checking in for an update...but now I think @blackpinkinyourarea and @SittingNextToIt could be right.

Shame.

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