Hi everyone,
I am wondering if anyone can advise me please? This is a long one - I've tried to include lots of relevant information, so that you have a full picture of what I'm struggling with...
My DD is autistic, and lives with a number of co occuring conditions, including OCD and anxiety. When she is experiencing heightened anxiety, it effects her sleeping, eating and she engages in self injurious behaviours. This has an impact on her ability to attend school. Her GP has said they can't help, as they say my DD needs to be seen by a specialist, and she has just finished 6 months of sessions with CAMHS. The mental health professional working with my DD was not an autism specialist.
DD is in mainstream secondary school and her attendance dipped below 90% which puts her in the 'persistently absent' bracket. This has meant that we have received the automated letters from the school, which threaten fines, and poor long term outcomes as a result of her non attendance. I've asked the school to authorise the absences, since they are related to her autism (which is a lifelong condition), and her co-occuring mental health conditions. But the school says they cannot do so without medical evidence from either CAMHS or her GP. They do not accept any other means (so advice from my DD's previous therapist, who was an autism specialist, was not accepted). I managed to get a letter from her GP last year, but the school has said that the wording is not specific enough to authorise absences, and the letter is only valid for 6 months. Last year, it took 245 for my DD to be assessed at CAMHS, and a further 2 months for her therapy sessions to begin. The MH professional working with my DD said that school should be authorising absences.
I have read the non statutory by the DfE guidance on attendance, and it says:
‘Schools should advise parents to notify them on the first day the child is unable to attend due to illness. Schools must record absences as authorised where pupils cannot attend due to illness (both physical and mental health related).’
It goes on to say:
‘In the majority of cases a parent’s notification that their child is ill can be accepted without question or concern. Schools should not routinely request that parents provide medical evidence to support illness. Schools are advised not to request medical evidence unnecessarily as it places additional pressure on health professionals, their staff and their appointments system particularly if the illness is one that does not require treatment by a health professional. Only where the school has a genuine and reasonable doubt about the authenticity of the illness should medical evidence be requested to support the absence.’ (Working Together to Improve School Attendance, DfE, 2022)
I have met with the HT to discuss the Attendance Policy, as I believe that it unfairly discriminates against neurodivergent students, many of whom who live with co occuring mental health conditions. It is also near impossible to obtain 'medical evidence' to support our DD's absences. The HT has said that once absences dip below 90%, they need medical evidence to authorise the absences, as this is what the statutory guidance says. I can't find this statutory guidance, and he has not been able to provide me with it, and anyway, this is contrary to what the Children and Families Minister told me - I contacted her last year to highlight the huge challenge in accessing mental health services for young people in the UK, and I mentioned that we were being threatened with fines for out DD's poor attendance, to which she said that school should be authorising these absences in this instance.
I am so confused. And frustrated. I can't believe how difficult it is to find a professional that can provide me with the 'appropriately worded' evidence I need to get the school to authorise her absences. And I am getting conflicting advice as to whether I should need this evidence anyway! I feel like we're in a bit of a stalemate.
I should say that I have a positive relationship with DDs school and the HT. Our meeting was positive on many levels, just frustrating that we ended up agreeing to disagree. The HT has changed the attendance procedure as a result of our meeting, to reflect the excessive waiting times for CAMHS assessment. But all this means is that they only accept medical evidence from a GP.
Please can someone help? Can anyone clarify what the attendance rules actually are?
Thanks in advance - and well done if you made it through my beast of a post!