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Should first names and surnames match?

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BeStrongLittleRodney · 07/03/2023 18:10

I am really discombobulated by a character name in a book I am reading.

I just cannot imagine parents calling a child Simeon McTavish!

to me he would have been Angus, or Jamie. Simon at a push, but not Simeon!

Do you think names should be more matching than this?

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Dipsydoodlenoodle · 07/03/2023 19:27

I went to school with a David Davidson...can't get more matching than that.

bloodywhitecat · 07/03/2023 19:28

I guess one person's idea of matching names is not another's.

PleaseStopSayingHuBbY · 07/03/2023 19:28

I sometimes change characters' names in my head if they're like that. I agree it's a bit weird.

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Zuffe · 07/03/2023 19:41

Perfect matches are like Magnus Magnusson or my favourite:

Donald Donaldson

Then you have:

Sir Richard Dick

VitaminX · 07/03/2023 19:53

Mixed names can reflect a mixed background. It's also a bit restrictive if you have a surname with a very specific vibe, to have to pick a name with the same vibe.

I get what you mean, though. My children are dual citizens but their whole names are very much from DP's culture (though on the international side so that everyone can pronounce them) because it didn't seem right somehow to mix and match. But then my side of their heritage isn't reflected in their names at all, which is a bit sad really.

Brahumbug · 07/03/2023 20:15

I knew a Robert Roberts!

OnceBitten25 · 07/03/2023 20:16

Lots here in scotland! Donald MacDonald, Innes McInnes etc 🤣

LesserBohemians · 07/03/2023 20:20

I don’t get it, are you suggesting that a Scottish surname needs to have a ‘matching’ Scottish first name? Sounds a bit mad and programmatic, and what do you do about children of mixed heritages? DS’s school is full of children with, say, a Biblical first name plus a double-barrelled surname of Nigerian or Polish or French and Irish extraction

XenoBitch · 07/03/2023 20:24

I knew a Morgan Morgan

BeStrongLittleRodney · 07/03/2023 20:58

LesserBohemians · 07/03/2023 20:20

I don’t get it, are you suggesting that a Scottish surname needs to have a ‘matching’ Scottish first name? Sounds a bit mad and programmatic, and what do you do about children of mixed heritages? DS’s school is full of children with, say, a Biblical first name plus a double-barrelled surname of Nigerian or Polish or French and Irish extraction

That’s a fair point - but there’s no hint I. This book about dual heritage, it’s just a very unusual combo in my opinion. That’s the joy of writing a book I suppose, you can go wild!

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TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 07/03/2023 21:28

Boaty McBoatface?

LesserBohemians · 07/03/2023 21:35

But Simeon is a pretty classic Biblical name, like Nathaniel, Benjamin et al — it doesn’t seem to me to be any kind of culture clash. I know kids with that kind of Biblical name whose surnames could be English, Irish, Scottish, West African, Asian…

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