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Adopt a Nan?

11 replies

Missinalittleone · 07/03/2023 14:48

Hello all you lovely Mums,
maybe a strange question …I have two wonderful grown up daughters, but neither of them want children 🥹, I am pining for a grandchild. Would anyone like to adopt me as a grandparent ?!
I have just retired as a professional in midwifery, CRB checked etc & lots of love to give!
Just thought there was no harm in asking!
thank you for reading please ask your friends
fingers crossed & thank you again 🥰
Gee

OP posts:
DashaDee · 22/03/2023 23:03

Hello Gee,
I’m a mum of 3 year old daughter Olivia. Unfortunately my family lives abroad and we don’t have many connections here in London. My daughter is missing a lot and I’m even worried it will affect her development..
Where are you based?

Believeinmarmite · 22/03/2023 23:14

This is so sweet, sounds like relationship I had with a lovely older lady who befriended my mum when mum was pregnant, she had no children of her own and was a nan to me in every way, I have very food memories of her, many more than my real grandparents.
I hope this works out for you, and a lucky family.

MarchMadness23 · 22/03/2023 23:20

Aww. I hope you find a spare grandchild!!

(I suspect you'll get some odd & some nasty posts. Don't take them
personally!! Just focus on the nice ones 😊)

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Xiaoxiong · 22/03/2023 23:42

This is wonderful- have you considered volunteering for HomeStart? Or in my area we have something called Family Friends, a friend who had a baby and no family support had a wonderful lady who came round a day a week, like a granny might just to help out and give her some support. There could be so many families that would love your support! Flowers

FatAgainItsLettuceTime · 22/03/2023 23:51

There are some ideas for schemes to volunteer with children here restless.co.uk/volunteer/volunteer-types-of-roles/volunteering-with-children/

Including a program where you volunteer to cuddle babies in hospital and give them valuable skin to skin/close contact time to feel soothed.

sunmonlight · 23/03/2023 00:03

This is lovely. Where are you based?

FatPatsCat · 23/03/2023 00:10

I'm sure I've seen this before and it got very different responses

Goodread1 · 23/03/2023 00:12

Aww you sound lovely

I think whoever has you as as their adoptive grandmother will be blessed lucky Op@Missinalittleone

I think what could be beneficial for you in meantime is to look into doing a bit of volunteering work with young children or children with speacial needs such as Downs syndrome .

Mamaneedsadrink · 23/03/2023 00:29

Gosh what a fantastic idea! Unfortunately I'm in a notehr country but UK sure many would love this concept

JockTamsonsBairns · 23/03/2023 00:34

This is an amazing concept but, infuriatingly, ridiculously difficult to get off the ground. I'm not even certain why, but it's something I've been interested in exploring for a few years now - but can't quite get there.

To give you some context, I'm a domiciliary carer for elderly people - very many of whom are lonely, isolated, and have adult children living overseas/have no children at all. They have a huge amount to offer, but nowhere to channel it.

I raised this with my DSis, who is deputy head at a primary school. We tried to marry together a scheme for elderly people and children to meet and form relationships/bonds. My Dsis teaches P7 in Scotland (11 and 12 year olds), and their history topic is WW2.
I told Dsis that we are very quickly running out of people who can give first hand accounts of the Second World War, and she was so excited about setting up a scheme for old people to meet children.

However, we were met with red tape and difficult rules at every turn.
For eg. I recommended 'Jean', a 97yo woman with all her faculties, an incredibly strong and fascinating old woman who was a primary school teacher herself back in the 1950's.
Alas, Jean wasn't allowed on school premises until she had DBS clearance. We attempted to apply for clearance, but she didn't have a current passport or a driving license. Nor could she lay her hands on her birth certificate, given that she'd escaped from Austria in 1939 as a 16yo.

I wish it was easy to connect young people with old people. I completely understand the need for checks, honestly. But time is running out fast to get these first hand accounts.

Kirsty1802 · 27/05/2023 10:00

I have messaged you x

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