I worked a corporate job for fifteen years, which I would have said at the time that I enjoyed quite a bit, before I burned out aged 43. At the time, I fully intended to find other employment after a short break, but after I experienced the first real down time in my life, with no homework due, no test looming, no sports competition to gear up for, no meeting to prepare for, no hiring or firing decisions to make… I realised how much I dreaded going back to it.
With me at home, we had a clean home without having to have strangers in our home, we had healthy meals, our pets were so happy to have company all day. Our household was less stressful. I learned skills I’d always wanted to and went back to hobbies I’d lost touch with. I stopped feeling the Sunday-evening dread that I’d had ever since my school days.
After a couple of years, the difference between my level of contentment and that of my husband, who was still working, became so great that we did our finances and decided he could quit as well as long as we were careful.
We have never been extravagant. We don’t have children. We spend on good-quality food, which we prepare at home, and we spend on top-quality gear for our hobbies, but other than that, we don’t need much money. Besides saving the money we used to spend on cleaners and restaurants, we have also cut way back on entertainment and discretionary spending that we used as distraction from our stress.
Even though I had a good career and loved a lot of aspects of going to work, once I’d been away from it, I could see the stupidity and unfairness that we all had to put up with so clearly that I couldn’t really go back. Now, we walk, read, and do things that interest us at our own pace. So, no, we’re not going back.
My quitting inspired a number of friends to exchange corporate life for something entirely different, and I think that is spooking some. If word gets out that we don’t have to slog our guts out for 45 years while a very tiny group skims off most of the profit from our labour, then the system collapses