For context. This morning in the car partner and I were driving to view a car. Got lost going there. I was the driver and he had addresses etc. we'd been in out running errands and I'd been in the car for 1.5 hours. I was saying this is taking ages to get here, feels like a waste of my time (my only day off) and he said stop whinging and I was ruining his morning. I responded well I've been in the car since after 9am, it's now 11am, it will take 10 mins to look at car then another 40 odd mins to get back. He got really annoyed and said stop whinging. And I was insistent this was my opinion of the morning and yet he thinks it's a whinge. Whatever we want to call it he does like to hear anything like this. He works away a lot, retuned last night and remained adamant I was not whinging just stating obvious. Then dropped it. In the end I've sat here for the afternoon thinking he doesn't seem to care about my opinion/whinge and less bothered about what you call it and more bothered about his lack of care of how I've spent my morning. Ps car was horrible in the end
My question is when does an opinion become a whinge? When someone says it more than twice ? Because I am not a whinger and so not like to be categorised as one