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Preparing for life as a single parent

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planningforthefuture · 26/02/2023 20:17

I have come to the point where my mind is made up and I will be leaving my husband, thus becoming a single parent for our 4 year old.

I have tried to end it before but always end up giving in and agreeing we will stay together, but now I know I am getting close to breaking point and it is affecting my mental health staying together and I am starting to become a parent I don't want to be because I am constantly irritated, sad or just worn down. I don't have the energy or motivation for life anymore and I know that leaving is my best option.
That being said, I don't think it is going to be a quick process, although I have made up my mind I imagine it will be several months yet before I have the courage to go, I know it will need to be a pack up and leave while he is at work situation for me to actually be able to go through with it,otherwise I will be bullied into staying as I have so many times before.
So I wondered if anyone can give me any works of wisdom or advice to help me prepare for being a single parent?

Despite knowing it is the best thing to do for me and for my son I am terrified of getting it wrong and my son suffering as a result.

OP posts:
Brightlightlisa · 20/08/2023 13:33

Just become a single parent myself, feeling a bit down at the mo. It was my decision to leave too. Hated so much negativity in my life. Just me and my little boy now. Don't be afraid to take your little on out on your own, tbh I find it easier as you aren't battling with the other parent. I'm trying to work on myself at the mo, find what I love to do on my own. Walking clears my head when I get a chance to do it. It is hard getting used to being on your own, especially in the evening, so try to keep busy. Find a hobby, treat yourself to small things, I like to make a nice iced coffee with syrup. Small steps, take it one day at a time. If you look too much into the future it seems so daunting!

PrincessTigger · 20/08/2023 14:00

Good luck OP. You know what’s best for you and your son. Solo parenting is tough some days but it’s also so rewarding and empowering. You deserve to be happy x

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