I don’t understand why she is being rude unless she is saying it to deliberately upset you. She’s 7 she’s asking questions about they way you look and why you look a particular way. All my DCs have done it I’ve always done my best to explain why something is the way it is.
why my “yellow” tooth is like it is, I have a crooked tooth to one side and in some lights is looks really yellow, I don’t have naturally white white teeth, it’s never bothered me, I just tell them that everyone has different teeth, mine was never straightened as a child and in some lights it looks yellower than it is. My DH has bad crooked teeth, my DDs know it’s because he was naughty as a child and pulled his braces off and grandad refused to buy more.
Why do my boobs touched my belly button, because I have big boobs and when not wearing a bra they are saggy, the older I get the saggier they get especially after having children and breast feeding.
Big belly, it’s my body shape, the last few years I’ve put weight on due to health issues so it’s bigger than it’s been in the past. Some people have flat tummies, mummies is big, but that’s just my shape.
Most recent, pointed out my all my children separately (something I’d noticed recently myself) “did you cut your face mummy”, “what’s that line on your face, dose it hurt” Me: it’s called a wrinkle! We get them as we get older, look I’ve got others but I noticed myself this one myself recently, it looks bigger because I’ve got such awesome cute dimples look… then I smile and they can see it’s my dimple that no longer disappears when I stop smiling.
Encourage them to ask questions, especially if you don’t want them to have body issues. Just teach them not to ask about other people in front of them.
I have 3 DDs and I do not want them to have my body issues which is why I normalise different bodies and never ever let them know what bothers me about mine.