It was in about April 2020 and it was about my husbands crazy ex that dated him for a few months in their late teens and was obsessed with him? Messaging him and asking him to meet her for coffee- she would drive 250 miles just for that. She friend requested me on Facebook and wanted to follow me on Instagram, claimed to be a mental health nurse and she knew the pandemic was a hoax, then sent me a horrible inbox message when my husband called her out on her bullshit that she was posting all over his wall about "Plandemic". Horrible message consisted of her telling me my husband was continually arranging secret sex nights with women for when he was on nights (which he hadn't been for about eight years) because he wasn't happy with me, that he'd messaged her before our wedding to say he wanted to sleep with her, that he'd sent her our sex tapes (that don't exist) and making snide references to personal things in my medical records. I had that post removed due to genuine concerns that this mad woman was stalking me all over the place.
But I thought about updating in case anyone ever wondered what had happened- just because I found the PALS response from the hospital she worked at today when I was going through my filing. They said they'd never employed anyone of her name as a mental health nurse, that while they can't comment on her qualifications, she is not currently a registered nurse but that she also no longer was employed at their hospital trust and had not been in a patient facing role. They said they had referred the case to the ICO as a data breach due to unauthorised records access and were setting up a new system to flag activity outside of certain parameters. They also made note of their strict rules about phones for personal use on shift and apologised profusely for her having contacted me and my husband multiple times when she was working a shift at the hospital. They also apologised for the distress that this must have caused me and it was not the conduct they expected of their staff.
Since she quite obviously got the boot, we have heard nothing from her in her own name, but have had friend requests from fake accounts and inbox messages from "facebook user" telling my husband I'm having sex with my ex or telling me as a concerned friend that he's got a secret child with an ex from his teen years. Or sending me "you stole my soulmate" memes. My husband and I met when we were late 20s! This continued regularly for about a year and now we get a flurry every couple of months. The police were called and she was spoken to about malicious communications. But she lives at the other end of the country to us so I think they saw it as something to just get off their plate.
Anyway, just in case anyone remembered it!