Haven’t used an iron in years. Everything is pegged out until nearly dried (or tumble dried until nearly dry) and then hung up on hangers.
bags are always packed and left by the front door the night before and the following days evening activities eg cubs left on desks ready from when they come home from school
if they ask for tv time usually a board game or a nice bath and a family read distracts them
audio books are great 👍 especially for the car. We choose them for all ages
our local am dram groups are awesome and 3 tickets was £35 and £12 for drinks, crisps and a large g and t for me
I always Chuck in extra cans of tomatoes and soup and beans even if they are not on the list
long life milk might not taste brill but always useful to have some in the middle
hot water bottles are fab and we use them to water the plants
don't forget libraries
I’ve made 4 friends randomly on the local WA group and we swap books regularly - one of us buys x4 in Tesco and we share the titles out and buy 16 books between us and rotate them happened organically but it’s fab - once they have cycled full circle we get new ones and the old ones go to the charity shop
pass on uniform and ask on local groups for uniform before buying
same with football boots, wet suits etc
we offer ours first and then ask
always carry a power bank and tissues and calpol
having spent years with laryngitis and tonsillitis every single year I eventually got my GP to give me some antibiotics for the cupboard and she replaces them - I don’t take them unless I really really need them and she knows this.
on the above point the other thing I have found to shorten a serious sore throat is hard tongue scrapping and disinfecting it and doing it again and disinfecting my toothbrush between cleans / if that fails antibiotics
period pants are a game changer I’m nearly 50 just got some - amazing
hug yourself and look after yourself - no one else will
my other pearls of wisdom - just like their are queen bee teenagers, there are a lot of sanctimonious women in little clusters - find your out tribe if you don’t fit in- highly recommend learning tennis and joining a club.