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MLM friend

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Awkwardsauce · 17/02/2023 22:19

Friend and I were texting today and she asked if I fancied getting a takeaway tonight. So I said yes and she came over and I ordered online. She'd been on a transformational retreat recently and I knew she'd be telling me about what happened at that but she also told me that the woman who ran it and someone else had signed up to Utility Warehouse and were saving loads on their bills, and they'd told her all about it and she's going to do it too. She said you could make around £800 of savings. She was also going to be working for them herself on top of her day job, to make extra money. I wasn't sure if she'd fully signed up to it as she said she had a phone call tomorrow with this woman to discuss things but all her utilities have been moved over already. She was hinting about me speaking to this woman too but I thought no ffs it's the weekend and I want to relax. I said I would prefer to read up on things first before doing anything and hoped she'd leave it at that. I hate being put on the spot.

It all felt rather awkward after that and I felt like she'd only asked to meet up to try to lure me in. We see each other often anyway but I got the impression that she was trying to recruit friends and family for this too. She kept bringing the subject back to it. Going on about saving money etc.

After the food we watched a movie but I started googling the company and read lots of bad stuff about it and that it's basically a MLM. I have no interest in joining that kind of thing and it sounded like you might not make much savings anyway. Slow Internet etc too. I didn't mention it again after that and once the movie ended started making noises about being tired etc and she left soon after. If she says anything else about it I'll tell her what I read and that I'm not doing it. Hopefully that will be the end of it though. She's not a very pushy person so fingers crossed she took the hint. She's been talking about the woman's next retreat as well which I'm not really interested in but now I'm wondering if they're just trying to get new customers for UW!

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Awkwardsauce · 19/02/2023 22:04

Yes I just read about the light bulbs thing online, I didn't realise this was no longer a thing.

The funny thing is I would have definitely been suckered into this had someone came to my door or if I'd been cornered at an event like she was. I'm really bad at saying no usually and have been signed up for various things because I'm useless at telling them to go away. But now I can hopefully deal with this kind of thing.

I was going to text her tonight about something but decided against it in case she mentioned the UW thing.

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Poscapen · 20/02/2023 08:20

ChilliBandit · 19/02/2023 18:11

Why would paying a fixed direct debit make you worse off? If your actual usage is less than the direct debit you just build up a credit. Unless UW have some weird system and keep your money.

Apologies for not being clear. I meant a direct debit for a fixed tariff.

Poscapen · 20/02/2023 08:22

This is really easy to deal with honestly. As I did with a friend who is a Jehovah's Witness - just tell your friend that you don't want to discuss her MLM at all. Ask her to respect that for the sake of your friendship.

ChilliBandit · 20/02/2023 09:00

Poscapen · 20/02/2023 08:20

Apologies for not being clear. I meant a direct debit for a fixed tariff.

Ah ok, that’s not unique to UW though, my supplier even print on my bill if they have a cheaper tariff I could move to. No one has a cheaper tariff at the moment though.

Awkwardsauce · 22/02/2023 13:54

Yesterday I saw a group of people wearing purple uniforms in my town and wondered if she'd sent backup from UW to indoctrinate me 😛

Friend has been very quiet, she'd usually message frequently asking how things are or moaning about work. I messaged on Monday about something light hearted and she responded but heard nothing since am wondering if she's in a huff.

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Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 22/02/2023 14:03

An ex friend of mine was very into all these schemes, badgering her friends to sign up.
She’s quite senior in local politics now, so she doesn’t have to resort to ripping her ‘friends ‘ off directly 🫢

mindutopia · 22/02/2023 14:56

Yep, I have a friend who sells UW. He was becoming an 'entrepreneur' and it was only a matter of time before his 'passive income' would mean he could quit his shitty day job that he hates, spend all day by the pool, relaxing, living his best life. It's been 10 years. He's still in his shitty day job, still missing out on spending time with his family because he's always trying to hustle this MLM crap in his free hours hoping one day it will pay off.

Awkwardsauce · 23/02/2023 17:21

It's crazy how otherwise intelligent people fall for this shit. I mean I've signed up for stuff after getting pressured by salesmen at the door so would likely struggle to say no if I'd been there but now I'm on high alert. I certainly won't be attending the next retreat like my friend suggested.

Mutual friend has invited us over at the weekend, she's not accepted yet.

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