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marketen · 16/02/2023 04:26

My husband has recently been keeping tabs on this girl. Looking her up on different social medias, just recently started following her and looks up her messages and re-reads his old conversations with her.

I recognised her as he had told me about her a long time ago. He said she used to be an old friend of his but they are not friends anymore. He declined having liked her and her having liked him. He forgot that he told me that she was his ex.

He doesn't want me to follow my exes, look them up or talk to them. So I find it very hypocritical but I am scared he is still hung up on her. Especially since he lied about who she was.

What does it mean exactly?

He also has a porn addiction and doesn't stay hard for me and has a very hard time finishing, he doesn't want me to pleasure him more often than not. I feel like he fantasises over so many other women but me and it's hurting my self esteem.

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marketen · 16/02/2023 04:28

Btw, he follows another ex of his and I don't mind because they are still on good terms and it was a while ago, we also still go out all together occasionally.

It it just the sudden surge of interest and the lying for me that worries me this time

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marketen · 16/02/2023 04:55

Also, not to drip feed. But what upset me is also the content of her account, videos of her dancing in her bras

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GreyCarpet · 16/02/2023 06:35

A porn addict with ED who lies to you and wanks to videos of his ex dancing around in her underwear (because that's what it means).

Is this really what you thought you'd end up with?

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PaigeMatthews · 16/02/2023 06:40

GreyCarpet · 16/02/2023 06:35

A porn addict with ED who lies to you and wanks to videos of his ex dancing around in her underwear (because that's what it means).

Is this really what you thought you'd end up with?

Thats sums him up nicely doesn't it.

the relationship doesnt sound good. Why do you want to stay in it?

coilywurly · 16/02/2023 06:53

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