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* Valentine's Day *

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Fentylipgloss · 13/02/2023 21:28

Are there any singles who genuinely dislike being single on Valentine's Day!?

Personally even in a relationship I think it's horse shit, never been with anyone who bothered therefore it never bothered me... So having this day happen and being alone, it's like ... yeah, no fucks are given.

Just wondering :-)

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J37 · 14/02/2023 02:33

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Sweetener12 · 14/02/2023 05:21

I don't think I've ever cared about it, in a relationship or not. We were never big on gifts (literally just a romantic smartshow 3d slideshow from me, flowers from him and chocolates that we get both) and as a single I don't think I've ever did something special for myself. I mean, why, I'm good 😁

BlastedPimples · 14/02/2023 05:32

I've never liked Valentine's Day and I am only just single after 22 years.

It's naff and contrived and well, each to their own.

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Deathraystare · 14/02/2023 05:37

Single. Think Valentine'sDay is rubbish even if I was in a relationship I would not bother with it.

I have noticed that after that particular day on Mumsnet there are a number of "no card. No flowers" posts from women who are not in good relationships. Ignored or belittled by spouse every other day so why would they change on a particular day?

AnnoyedFromSlough · 14/02/2023 05:45

I'm single, and very happy to be so, every day of the year. Even more so when I see all the 'my husband gave me a necklace but it wasn't the one I wanted. Aibu to be upset/angry/not speaking to him' posts that happen on every occasion where gifts have become normal.

Work in retail over times like valentine's day, mother's day and Christmas, and you'll soon get jaded by all the pressure that people are under. They are all huge money making scenes for major retailers. HUGE. Mostly spending on things that things that are overpriced especially, and people would not buy at any other time of year. Don't be sad about not fueling the bullshit.

JamNittyGritty · 14/02/2023 06:30

whether I am single or with someone I think it’s nonsense- can’t believe the stress it causes some people

mondaytosunday · 14/02/2023 06:47

When younger I'd be a bit wistful about not having a partner. Now (after being married and having kids, I'm a widow) I couldn't care less. I just hope not too many blokes get suckered in to buying overpriced roses - there were masses at Tesco last night already looking past their best!

AutisticLegoLover · 14/02/2023 07:03

I'm single and love being single. I'm 46 and can't see me ever wanting a relationship again. I've always found the day cringeworthy and uncomfortable when in a relationship. I'm autistic though and don't like getting gifts or attention. I did really love the card I got from my crush when I was 7 though 🥰 his big sister helped him make it and it was a Love is... one and I think it had a roses are red type poem in it. I wish I'd kept it.

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Deathraystare · 14/02/2023 05:37

Single. Think Valentine'sDay is rubbish even if I was in a relationship I would not bother with it.

I have noticed that after that particular day on Mumsnet there are a number of "no card. No flowers" posts from women who are not in good relationships. Ignored or belittled by spouse every other day so why would they change on a particular day?

There will be posts about it tonight/tomorrow.

We have never done Valentine's Day don't see the point.

HuntingoftheSnark · 14/02/2023 09:09

Totally agree on all points with @AnnoyedFromSlough and to add to the retailer profit margins - my father's funeral was on February 13th some a few years ago. My mother was determined to have red roses on his coffin. The florist was very apologetic but said that she had to charge astronomical prices as it was around Valentine's Day. I couldn't convince my mother that lilies would be ok!

Sux2buthen · 14/02/2023 09:16

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And women 👍🏻
Happy Valentines

J37 · 14/02/2023 10:41

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shiningstar2 · 14/02/2023 10:53

DH and I are 70. Been married 48 years. We keep it simple. He always buys me a small bunch of flowers. I buy him a small box of chocolates. Both give a card which has a short but sincere message. Sometimes funny message. Works for us. Doesn't have to be commercialised. It wouldn't be a disaster if he forgot ...the 48 genuinely happy years .. though with plenty of ups and downs... is what matters...but maybe I would be a bit disappointed after all these years lol. Hope everyone has a good February 14th whether it's a day that matters to you or not. 😃

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Fentylipgloss · 14/02/2023 14:29

@AnnoyedFromSlough

I am surprised at people being ungrateful at receiving a gift. Doesn't matter the day of the year, just genuinely shocked at not being happy with getting a present.

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PartridgeInAChair · 14/02/2023 14:30

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Because only men like sex ??????

Deathraystare · 14/02/2023 15:51

Dad used to sign .mum's card "From your unkempt admirer."!!

Sux2buthen · 15/02/2023 08:46

Unfortunately my mild joke here prompted a DM from one of the other posters.

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