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Husband has got a second phone number

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oneboysmama · 13/02/2023 03:27

Hi everyone,

I just found out that my husband has a second phone number (or recently had). He lost his phone a few months ago and the phone could hold two sim cards so I'm assuming that's where he had it.

He never mentioned it to me.
He has a history of porn addiction and looking up girls on web cam sites (although he swears he has never spoken to them).

When I looked up his phone number on Google, all I could find was a link to archive.org about sex workers and hookups. But the link doesn't work.

What do I do?

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Aquamarine1029 · 13/02/2023 03:43

You don't trust him, with good reason. You shouldn't be married to a person you can't trust.

ApolloandDaphne · 13/02/2023 04:13

My DH has two numbers on his phone too but one is his work number so he only needs one phone. I assume that's not the case here?

oneboysmama · 13/02/2023 04:47

He declined having a second phone number

I managed to access the websites on Google (found a couple more) and they are all online hookup sites

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oneboysmama · 13/02/2023 04:51

I wonder if it's genuine websites or just websites that hold a record of random phone numbers. Because the same websites appear if I change one or two digits on the phone number

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IAmWomanHearMeRoar1 · 13/02/2023 05:56

He has a history of porn addiction and looking up girls on web cam sites. He is NOT husband material, no even remotely. Why are you still with him? Have some self respect and leave him. Men with porn addiction are write offs, they never recover. They only get worse, and worse. And worse. He's worthless. Gather your self respect. The fact you know he has a porn addiction and stay with him puzzles me. You can't be that desperate for a man?

oneboysmama · 13/02/2023 16:46

I gave him another chance in exchange for him to do therapy, which he did. But it sounds like it's something he's currently doing

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