One of my children was referred to CAMHS by his primary school 4.5 years ago with possible ADHD.
We waited around a year then covid hit, so we went private as things were really bad.
Psychiatrist diagnosed ADHD, and was against the usual go-to medication because he had tics, said they might make them worse.
She said there's other meds but let's wait until he is at primary school because the side effects can be a bit grim at that age (8) at the time.
1 year ago he saw the ADHD nurse for a QB test and we are no closer to what happens next within CAMHS.
Things are utterly shit at secondary school.
I tried to contact the private clinic to revise the option of the "other" suggested drug - no idea what that is. Only to be told the clinic is closed entirely. It doesn't exist anymore.
So is that diagnoses and drug choice worth nothing?
Do I go private again?! I can't afford that?
God knows when we will see anyone in CAMHS, all the while school life is falling apart and that's with a very supportive SENCO.